Exposing our very soul to ourselves can be scary enough, however the
thought of
exposing our soul to another person can be somewhat terrifying!
However, to
achieve true intimacy with another person we must be willing to reveal
our naked
soul, unencumbered by the external ego that we hide behind.
Is
this a
possible reason why so many relationships do not last or exist in a
roller-coaster of emotions? I would venture to say that this is at the
very root
of all succesful and failed relationships.
Think about it, if
two people
could both put aside their ego and the fears that the ego presents to
them, if
they could bare their souls, without fear of judgement, without fear
of being
hurt, what type of relationship would you have? You my friend would
have the
ultimate relationship, you would have in every esscence of the word a
“Soulmate
Relationship”.
I think it’s important to state that this
type of
relationship dosen’t just happen. A true soul-mate relationship
takes effort
from both people. The effort at first begins in being able to ask each
other
questions, and to be able to answer questions with fully honesty, with
introspection.
These questions may uncover truths that you
have pushed
aside, truths that you have not dared look at in many years. These
questions
will reveal to you and your soul-mate your naked soul. The answers
which will be
discovered in the barring of your soul to each other will enable a
closeness
unlike anything you have ever known. You will grow through this
exploration of
your own soul and the soul of your soul-mate. At first this may be
very scary
territory, as you progress in your journey, I assure you that your
fear (ego
based) will be replaced with a knowing, an unparelleled trust,
security and
unconditional love!
Note that this ultimate intimate
relationship is not
a destination, it is a never ending and glorious journey
Absolutely true. Often, we are unable to expose
our weaknesses as we are scared of being ridiculed
and keep boasting of strengths which we do not
even possess. To accept your weaknesses atleast
to your soul-mate is the first step towards this
glorious journey of intimate relations.
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