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Ashween Chawda
Author:Ashween Chawda
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10 Ways to Develop and Maintain a Positive Attitude
Monday 24th, November 2008

Believe that “you are great:

Wait! You’re wondering whether or not you’re a great person? Stop right there. Every person, in his or her own way, is great! You don’t believe me? Well, start believing! If you don’t believe in yourself and your abilities how can you expect others to believe in you? If you lack confidence because you feel others are more qualified…forget it!

Understand that everything happens for a reason.

Right now, many of you might be experiencing difficult times. Maybe that’s why you are reading this Blog. But don’t feel sorry for yourself or make excuses for your Situation. These feelings will only sabotage your efforts.

Get some R, R, and R (Rest, relaxation, and reflection).

Before starting any job hunt, it is critical to have as much energy and enthusiasm as possible. Whether you have lost your job, or you just want to find something better, I always recommend taking some time off to rest, relax, and reflect.

Tell yourself, “I can do it!”

Keep your spirits up! A great way to feel confident at any time is to yell out with joy and confidence, “I can do it!”

Ever notice how it’s the positive people who always seem to be the happiest and most successful? Upbeat people are fun to be around. They are also the ones who tend to get the most out of life. A positive attitude is contagious. Those who catch it are forever cured.

You can do it! You will get the job of your dreams!

Think of interviewing as a numbers game.

At times, your job hunt may become frustrating, especially if you experience rejection. However, don’t let it get you down or strip away your confidence. Depending on the job you are trying to get, it may take as many as 10 interviews just to get one offer. But by reading this blog, you are increasing your chances for success. Look at each rejection as bringing you one interview closer to getting the job you really want.

Surround yourself with positive people.

When going through an arduous job hunt, it is easy to be sidetracked by negative thoughts and pessimistic people. But to succeed you must avoid these damaging elements as much as possible. Dwelling on the negative will only hurt your efforts. Instead, focus on the positives. Surround yourself with people who will encourage you and motivate you. When you are around positive people you’ll think and perform like a winner!

Don’t take rejection personally.

One of the most difficult tasks of any job hunt is to not take rejection personally. However, in job hunting, there are many things that are beyond your control. Just understand that this process is the universe’s gift to help you find a much more fulfilling opportunity. Rarely in life does something worthwhile ever come easy.

Treat interviewing like a job.

Typically, the people that have the greatest success at job hunting are those who treat the job hunt like a job in itself. This attitude fosters motivation and productivity.

After all, getting a new job is a job in itself. Anyone who tells you otherwise is mistaken. There are many steps you can take to treat your job hunt like a job…and put yourself in a position to succeed.

Focus on what you can control.

In life, as well as in job hunting, there are many things we can’t control. We can’t control things such as the economy, politics, taxes, and whether. However, there are many things we can control. We can control aspects such as:

· Diet.

· Exercise.

· Attitude.

· Organization.

· Focus.

When you focus on those things that you can control somehow the things you can’t control become less cumbersome. I know when I eat right, exercise regularly, properly focus my energies, and organize, I have a much more positive attitude about myself. Plus, I am much more productive.

Visualize success.

Perhaps the best exercise of all is visualization. Every morning when you wake up, take a few moments to close your eyes and visualize success. Visualize an interviewer reaching across the desk and shaking your hand, saying, “Congratulations, welcome to our team.” Or, “Congratulations…You’re hired!”

Before every interview, visualize the outcome you want. If it is a phone interview, Visualize the interviewer asking you to come in for a second interview. If you are interviewing in person, visualize the interviewer offering you a job.

When You Visualize Success, You Achieve It

Hopefully by now you are feeling better about yourself and your situation. When you believe in yourself, you can succeed at almost anything. Thomas Edison failed thousands of times before he finally found the solution to inventing the light bulb.

Thomas Edison believed in himself. If you believe…you will achieve! So before moving on to the Job Search, close your eyes and visualize success. You are great! You can do it! You will get the job you want at a salary you desire!

Cheers,

Chawda.

 
Comments
Comment 1: By asangles l on 11th Dec 2008
I recently came accross your blog and have been reading along. I thought I would leave my first comment. I dont know what to say except that I have enjoyed reading. Nice blog. I will keep visiting this blog very often.

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Comment 2: By preeti koppula on 01st Dec 2008
Its was really motivating and have copied to read this daily as soon i as iam up and ready.Thanks for the wonderful blog

Comment 3: By kiran kumari on 27th Nov 2008
Thanks a lot,Really very nice blog, especially i learnt good things from this. Now I can say "I believe, I am, and I will do it."

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