The best
ideas don't always win out over time. Often the quality of an idea is
not enough to ensure its adoption. Success at Company depends on your
ability to gain acceptance for your thinking � and perhaps
you find this to be true, at least in part, in your organization as
well. This course module offers strategies and tactics for furthering
your initiatives using persuasive communication.
In
mathematical terms, your professional effectiveness is the product of
the quality of your thinking times your ability to gain acceptance for
your ideas.
As you
aspire to more influence within your organization or with your
customers or clients, the ability to influence others becomes a
crucial skill.
Communicating
Company
prides itself on the ability to precision-question bad processes out
of existence. Communications are expected to be crisp. Like a good
chess player, you are expected to think further than the move in hand,
and to understand the implications of action or
inaction.
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Build your credibility. It is
the key to your power of influence. Credibility builds up slowly as
you deliver to specification and deliver on time. It is easily lost.
You need to guard it jealously; pick your battles wisely. Sometimes
the fact that you are right doesn't mean that you get to be right. In
the long term, the fact that you were right may not be
important.
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Manage people's expectations. The
longer you work on something, the greater the expectation. If you
leave it too long, you can only disappoint. Get your initial thinking
out there so that you can benefit from others' feedback. No boss likes
surprises. 'Inoculate' your managers against contentious issues that
you're dealing with. Knowledge ahead of time will help them manage the
impact of any negative feedback they may receive. Delivery is
important: You have to project your thinking, not leak it!
·
Be positive, assertive, and
confident in what you are communicating.
Influencing
There are other things that you
should keep in mind when influencing people.
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Know what you want. What
does your desired outcome look like? Draft an email without sending
it, or talk an idea through with somebody. You may find that in the
process of explicitly articulating your thinking, you achieve a far
more precise understanding of your desired
outcome.
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Understand who cares, who the
stakeholders are.
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Provide more options. People
don't like ultimatums.
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Think the process through to
completion for each option.
·
See things from the perspective of
others. What does it mean to them? You will argue
differently if the issue is that of losing face rather than a resource
constraint.
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Speak to the person in charge. Any
sales course (and you are indeed selling your initiatives) will tell you that if the person
you are talking with is not the decision-maker, then you are wasting
your time.
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Know how decisions are made. In this
respect it is good to recognize the informal decision-making that
happens when people meet regularly in the gym or
canteen.
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Aspire to achieve a win/win
scenario.
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Maintain an open relationship. This is
critical to your long-term success. Remember this when you're pushing
for more.
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Listen to what your manager's boss is
pushing. Figure out how to hook your thinking into the
same thing. Advertising agencies recognize the power of association.
Your chances of success will increase if you can link what you want to
do to some bigger, broadly accepted goal within the company.
Strategizing
You
understand your environment. You can clearly articulate what you want.
Now you should consider the best way to go about it. It isn't always
apparent that you have a choice of communications channels, but you
do.
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Face to
face.
This is usually the preferred option. Generally, people find it
more difficult to be nasty when they have to look you in the face.
·
Telephone. This
allows for direct dialogue but you miss reactive body language clues
that can be very helpful in fine-tuning your message.
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Email. This allows you to
consider your response very carefully.
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Videoconference. An
especially viable option when you are presenting initiatives to remote
influencers � and it can be fun.
·
Group
presentation. You can unveil your ideas in front of the
group if that is your preference, but this is not always a good way to
handle delicate issues.
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Informal. There is
always the 'casually calculated informal approach.'
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Social. You can
�sell� over pints or dinner (but be careful
about who you let choose the wine).
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Domino. The domino approach can
work: Tell person A because you know they play softball with person
Z.
Working
together
Teams can
have very different values, norms, and processes. Unless you enjoy an
insider's perspective you are not in a position to bet against their
schedule�make no assumptions. By working with other groups
I have learned that it is good to invest in your network, a network
that extends beyond your formal contacts.
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Understand how decisions get made and who
makes them.
·
Create an insider atmosphere by using a common
language or, more specifically, a common set of acronyms. It should be
a case of you and them against the constraints, the conflicting
schedules.
·
Understand the key milestones and their
relevance to your project's critical path.
·
Continually review the level of contact that
you have with 'externals' to evaluate the nature and level of
investment that the relationship requires.
·
Establish paths of escalation up-front so that
they can be exercised without undue contention should that be
required.
Using
email
People read email messages like
they do marketing collateral. A message gets scanned for key words or
action items. So:
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Say what you want in the first lines of the
e-mail message. This should compel your recipients, if they
are scanning a preview pane, to open it and consider the contents
further. Details can be left to the body of the message; people will
read them if they want to.
·
Avoid sensationalism. You may
find it in your adjectives and adverbs.
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Be careful about using humor and
charm. These are best kept to face-to-face meetings
where the relationship has already been tested and found to be robust.
·
Think about the target
audience, ensuring that you have all of the
stakeholders included. However, be wary of overexposure.
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Give people an opportunity to back
down, change their position, or allow you a
concession, one to one. You can always forward your sent e-mail
message to the group so that they know you have done something about
it.
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Keep the message simple. Break
issues down into constituent parts and if necessary send more than one
message. It is very frustrating to receive only two answers when five
questions were posed. You just know the other points will not be
addressed without further prompting.