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Sujata  Rajpal
Author:Sujata Rajpal
Corporate Communications - SPI
Humility – an important trait of highly successful people
Monday 04th, August 2008

Highly successful people have some usual traits. They are hard workers, get into details, quick learners, good managers, very organized, dedicated, professional, take the task to finish stage, manage time well et al. Humility is another trait which we generally ignore.

I have yet to meet a person who is very successful but not humble. Success and humility is a great combination and definitely not a coincidence. Humility is not taught in management schools or even leadership workshops. Organizations want their leaders to be visionary, capable and motivational but nowhere do they say anything about being humble. There is a direct and logical relation between the two. Humility is a visible demonstration of concern and compassion. A humble person is one who does not demonstarte that he or she is better or more important than others. Many instances prove that success and humility are not incompatible. Anecdotes of personalities like Narayan Murthy and Amitabh Bachchan reiterate the success – humility correlation.


Some of the humble traits of successful people - Deadlines are sacred to them irrespective of the severity of the issue. They reply to all mails may be how trivial the matter is. They don’t snub subordinates or anyone for that matter; believe that there is no end to learning. They genuinely believe that they are not the best and someone somewhere can do things better than them. Successful leaders understand that a sense of humility is essential to winning hearts and minds.

Humility is an act of courtesy and it is not opposed to self-confidence as many may think. In fact, though it might seem like a paradox, people with the highest self-confidence have the highest humility, because they have nothing to prove to themselves. Humility is also a pre-requisite for continuous learning. If you have humility, you can have an open mind to absorb the changes. Giving a patient hearing to others is another trait of being humble.

 
Comments
Comment 1: By Amlanjyoti Goswami on 17th Aug 2008
IT’S SO VERY TRUE!! Many eminent personalities have preached: “Do not add years to your life; add life to your years”. They even say, it is important to mature not only physically, but mentally too. We really should questions ourselves on these lines to find out where we stand. In a meaningful life, achieving true mental growth truly needs supreme humility. It’s difficult to achieve, but what is an achievement without difficulties!

Comment 2: By Archana Bapat on 08th Aug 2008
Thanks Sujata for this nice blog. I totally agree with you that to be humble needs a great deal of self confidence. It is one of the hightest and purest of virtues. It is the feeling of insecurity which makes one take humility as timidity.

Comment 3: By Raunaq Gupta on 07th Aug 2008
Thou shall be humble for thy heart flows into your deeds. And your deeds are what maketh you.


Comment 4: By ravi simon on 06th Aug 2008
Our present boss Mr.MP Ramesh, is a live example of the traits mentioned above.

Comment 5: By Ravi Kumar on 06th Aug 2008
There could be a million people who read this. Or have come across situations teaching them to follow this. They might as well proclaim to be humble in the way they talk or even present themeselves to a large audience. I bet, there could be many who realize/fail to realize what humility is! Perhaps, even on their death beds!

Comment 6: By Prabhakar Pattar on 06th Aug 2008
Humble shall inherit the earth

Comment 7: By Raj K on 06th Aug 2008
yes humility is a trait which is always a part of sucessfull people

Comment 8: By Madan Kalsi on 06th Aug 2008
Yes, but humanity is the trait which can not be taught to anyone. It is in the personality of a individual.

Comment 9: By Heather Sarin on 06th Aug 2008
Humility is such a beautiful trait. Humble people are also open-hearted and give and receive selflessly.

Heather Sarin

Comment 10: By SUJATHA KRISHNAMURTHY on 06th Aug 2008
Yes, its true. Only due to humbleness a leader can have empathy, which is most requied in understanding the other person / situation and can be successful.

Comment 11: By S N NAGARJUN on 06th Aug 2008
Being humble is good..

Comment 12: By HARVINDER SINGH ALAG on 06th Aug 2008
Its really nice to be humble and I do believe in it, but why is humility considered timidity or lack of aggressiveness ??

Comment 13: By aditya sinha on 05th Aug 2008
Its nice to be important but its also important to be NICE!!

Comment 14: By Rachna Kaushal on 05th Aug 2008
Wow! It is not hard to be humble ..I will try it out
thanks for this useful peice of advice

Comment 15: By Hari Bindal on 05th Aug 2008
A Sanskrat saying is, 'Vidhya dadaati vinyam', meaning knowledge imparts humility, very true.

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