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A better new, me

Posted in: Miscellaneous Tuesday 28th, April 2009

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Naveen Verma

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What’s the meaning of my life?

I think the purpose of life is to be useful, to be responsible, to behonorable, and to be compassionate. It is, after all, to matter: to count, to stand for something, to have made some difference that you lived at all.-- Leo C. Rosten (1908-1977) American Writer

But I would say it’s all about my values, my goals, my relationship with myself and with others. It’s about where I was & where I am going!

So many people try to influence our lives for some benefit of theirs or for no reason at all. Try to give our life their meaning and also make us believe it as ours! Though it is a positive or negative influence, the ultimate decision should be ours. Only we can give our life a meaning.

Then there is comparison. Everyone tries to compare one with other. I believe the comparison should always be with oneself. If you are comparing yourself with a person who is better than you, it can depress you. If you are better than someone, it can give you a false impression of feel good factor which may be pleasing at present but not in the long run.

It simply doesn’t matter if you are doing better or worse than your neighbor, your friend, or your colleague. Always check how you were last year or sometime back? How you are now? Are you being the better you or the worse you? At least that’s what each one of us should try to be 'The Better Me'. Better than previous every minute, every day, every week and every year. The Better ME! Be the very best you can be, be the best you have ever been!

Everyone gets almost similar circumstances, but why does one person gets through and another a victim of it? Circumstances must never be an excuse.

I guess it’s the response or the choices that you make, the decision that you take, The Attitude...The Positive Attitude that makes the difference.

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1:YES MR.VERMA U R CORRECT. WE ARE SO BUSY IN OUR LIFE THAT HARDLY WE GET A TIME TO THINK ABT. THESE THINGS. i THINK WE ALL SHOULD THINK POSITIVE. mOST OF THE TIME, WE FEEL THAT WHENEVR WE GO OUTSIDE PEOPLES TRY TO IGNORE YOU WITHOUT NAY REASON, IT IS OUR ATTITUDE WHAT WE THINK PEOPLE REACT LIKE THAT. tHERE IS POSITIVE WAVES & NEGATIVE WAVES , WHATEVER WE FEEL WE GET THE REACTION IMMEDIATELY. SO BE HAPPY IN YOUR LIFE ALWAYS SMILING, NEVER DEPRESSED, NEVER THINK THAT YOU ARE ALONE, NEVER FEEL SAD, YOU ARE THE WORLD'S BEST PERSON, DON'T CAMPARE YOURSELF WITH ANYBODY, YOU ARE THE BEST ALWAYS THINK LIKE THIS, BE CONFIDENT, BE BRAVE AND GO AHEAD IN LIFE WITH THIS ATTITUDE.

Posted by: MANMEET KAUR - 20th Aug 2009

2:yeh very true...

Naveen Verma replied to: MANMEET KAUR post - 27th Aug 2009

3:very nice thought.yes we must never compare ourselves to others,alwz try to better urself

Posted by: Preeti Singh - 11th Aug 2009

4:I appreciate what you have said here and what you think. Well said. Especially, when you said, above, that, “It simply doesn’t matter if you are doing better or worse than your neighbor, your friend, or your colleague. Always check how you were last year or sometime back? And also, I liked “The Better ME!” Philosophy of yours, where, one should evaluate themselves constantly, to improve and be the best and be the best we have ever been. Thank you.

Posted by: Suparna G - 01st May 2009

5:yes... totally agree to you and all must think "The Better Me". But then i believe that the comparision must also be done with someone who has been a successful person and learn from him/her. If we take the comparision in postive sense it leads us our goal soon. So the most important thing is postive attitude.

Posted by: Niketa Sable - 28th Apr 2009

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