I read a very good article last week written by Michael Dayes . I
thought you would enjoy it.
Motivation is not commitment. Too
often these concepts are confused.
Motivation is how much you
want something. Commitment is what you are prepared to do or sacrifice
in order to get the something you want.
‘Oh, I’ve just
attended a seminar and I am feeling really motivated!’ ‘I want to
live an amazing life and tap my true potential!’ Unless these
statements are backed up by an equal dose of commitment, the best
thing that can happen to the people making them is for the motivation
to drain right out of her system.
Motivation comes with hope
and no one likes to have their hopes crushed by reality. 'But this
time I am really psyched - I am really going to do it.' Not without
commitment you won’t.
No matter how motivated you are
feeling in this moment, your motivation will drop away in the future.
We’ll have moments when we are psyched. We’ll have periods of
deflation. When the deflation kicks in we either crash or we struggle
through. Those who struggle through deflation demonstrate depth of
commitment.
Those who crash when feeling not so motivated show
us what happens when we are dictated by our emotions. Until they
generate depth of commitment they will not come close to exploring
their potential.
In studies conducted on sports people it has
been shown that there is a huge difference in the commitment levels of
those who excel relative to those who don’t. The gap is not so large
in the motivation stakes. Somebody going for a Saturday morning stroll
might feel more motivated than the athlete facing up to a grueling
workout at the gym.
Feelings of motivation won’t mean much
when pain, fatigue, adversity and deflation set in. It’s look like
rain up ahead and the non committed finds themselves at home gorging
on a take away pizza in front of the T.V. The committed Saturday
stroller and the committed athlete expect challenges and they expect
to move right through them.
So what is the highest level of
commitment? When you are prepared to do whatever it takes. Doing
whatever it takes is not about being reckless and certainly not about
perfectionism. It’s about doing our best to see things through no
matter what and maintaining our integrity.
I was once in a 12
step recovery group and I heard somebody say that their mentor had
told them that they should never ‘pick up’ their substance of
choice, no matter what. “If your entire family die in a car crash,
do not pick up. If your house burns to the ground ,do not pick up.
There are no set of circumstances possible where picking up is OK,”
said the mentor.
In the opening of Alcoholics Anonymous
meetings, the preamble seems to support this suggestion of complete
commitment, “We stood at a turning point. Half measures availed us
nothing.”
And for those of us not in recovery but serious
about raising our consciousness, we are warned by Sri Ramakrishna, "Do
not seek enlightenment unless you seek it as a man whose hair is on
fire seeks a pond."
Not interested in enlightenment nor
recovery? In the endeavor of businesses start-ups an often quoted
statistic in the United States points to a harrowing fact:
Approximately 95% of new businesses fail within the first five years
of operation. Of the five percent that remain, approximately 95% of
these fail within the following five years.
A friend of mine
in the venture capital industry told me recently, “The days of
giving money to brilliant business plans are gone. It is expected that
every plan will fail. After the plan fails, it comes down to the
character of the people behind it.”
When I was 18 years old
I had a goal of becoming world champion in water ski racing. During a
training session a submerged log caused me to fall at over 120
kilometers per hour.
The impact of the water caused major
nerve damage and I was told that my right arm would remain paralyzed
and painful for the rest of my life. A few months passed and I went to
work. Two years down the track I competed at the world championships.
I was employed to assist one third of the Australian team.
The
skiers that employed me won numerous medals including gold, silver and
bronze in the overall championships. More importantly, for me, I had
discovered my great passion: Assisting people to use their mind and
body to do their very best in any context.
Whether it be
recovery, business, personal development, sport or any endeavor, the
path requires commitment. The universe will do its part, (on its time
and in its own way — not ours) when we follow through.
You can post your response to this article either here or at the
authors website www.michaeldayes.com and click on the link (top left
of page) titled 'Blog by Michael".