A boy was born to a
couple after eleven years of marriage. They were a loving couple and
the boy was
the gem of their eyes. When the boy was around two years old, one
morning the
husband saw a medicine bottle open. He was late for office so he asked
his wife
to cap the bottle and keep it in the cupboard. His wife, preoccupied
in the
kitchen totally forgot the matter. The boy saw the bottle and
playfully went to
the bottle fascinated by its color
and drank
it all. It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in
small
dosages. When the child collapsed
the mother
hurried him to the hospital, where he died. The mother was stunned.
She was
terrified how to face her husband. When the distraught father came to
the
hospital and saw the dead child, he looked at his wife and uttered
just five
words.
QUESTIONS
: 1. What were the five words
? 2. What is the implication of
this
story?
ANSWER
: The husband just said "I am with
you
Darling"
The husband's totally
unexpected
reaction is a proactive behavior. The child is dead. He can never be
brought
back to life. There is no point in
finding
fault with the mother. Besides, if only he had taken time to keep the
bottle
away, this would not have happened.. No one is to be blamed. She had
also lost
her only child. What she needed at that moment was consolation and
sympathy from
the husband. That is what he gave her.
If
everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there would
be much
fewer problems in the world. "A journey of a thousand
miles begins with a single step".
Take off all your envies,
jealousies, unforgiveness, selfishness, and fears. And you will find
things
are actually not as difficult as
you
think.
Half our problems may come to an end the day when
we stop trying to find fault in others deeds,as
past can't to reverted back but by playing blame
game we may end up ruining not only our present
but also our future.
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