HOW TO BE HAPPY - TIPS
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HOW TO BE HAPPY - TIPS

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Tip 1

Make happiness a priority. If happiness is not at the

top of your list then other things will take precedence.

If other things take precedence, they may well interfere

with your efforts to feel good.

Tip 2

Make plans to be happy. Those who fail to plan, plan

to fail. Just like in any other life domain, the successful

pursuit of happiness requires planning.

Tip 3

Set happy goals. Following on from Tip 2, planning

requires effective goal setting. And don’t forget to

make sure your goals are SMART (specific,

measurable, achievable, relevant and timed).

Tip 4

Do things that make you happy. Although this

sounds obvious, many people simple forget to do

things from which they gain pleasure. And do them as

often as possible.

Tip 5

Set yourself tasks from which you’ll gain

satisfaction. As well as pleasure and enjoyment,

satisfaction is also an important part of happiness. So

make sure that when you’re planning your tasks and

activities you include things that might not be fun, but

from which you’ll gain a sense of achievement.

Tip 6

Play and have fun. Don’t take life too seriously.

Although we all have responsibilities there’s no reason

why we can’t approach much of our lives in a playful

manner. In fact, those who do so will undoubtedly be

happier.

Tip 7

Identify where your strengths lie. Know where your

faults and weaknesses are to avoid problems. Know

where your strengths lie to be really happy and to

succeed in life.

Tip 8

Utilise your strengths. Although we all can and

should endeavour to improve in areas in which we’re

weak there’s just as much, if not more, to be gained

from focusing on the maximal utilisation of your

strengths (including all your positive qualities and

attributes).

Tip 9

Be curious. Constantly search for new ways to be

happy. Keep a look out for new ways to approach life

and to have fun.

Tip 10

Be grateful and appreciate what you have. We all

have many choices in life one of which is whether to

focus on all the things we don’t have (of which there

might be many), or to focus on all the things we do

have. There’s no doubt, that gratitude and

appreciation will significantly increase your chances of

experiencing happiness.

Tip 11

Learn to like and ideally to love yourself. We must

love before we can be loved. To love others and to be

loved by others is a key component of happiness.

Tip 12

Invest time and energy in to your key

relationships. Happy people spend more time

working on and in their relationships. Happy people

tend to be more supportive of other people in their life.

Happy people are more generous and altruistic.

Tip 13

Socialise and interact with others as much as

possible. Happy people have both more and better

quality relationships. So as well as working to improve

the quality of your relationships (as noted in Tip 12) it’s

also worthwhile working to improve the number of your

relationships.

Tip 14

Weed out unhelpful thoughts. The Dalai Lama has

been quoted saying that “The central method for

achieving a happier life is to train your mind in a daily

practice that weakens negative attitudes and

strengthens positive ones.” Learn first to identify your

thoughts and then begin to challenge those that are

negative and unhelpful.

Tip 15

Plant happier, optimistic thoughts. As noted in Tip

14, there are two parts to developing helpful, optimistic

thinking. The first is to weed out unhelpful negative

thoughts and the second is to plant more positive,

optimistic ones. This is essentially a skill, and like any

other skill becomes easier and more effective with

practice.

Tip 16

Live a healthy life. Eat well and keep active.

Exercise regularly. Although not impossible, it’s

difficult to be happy if you’re constantly sick and not

very healthy.

Tip 17

Ensure you gain adequate sleep and rest.

Consistent with Tip 16, it’s difficult to be happy if you’re

constantly tired and struggling to find enough energy to

get through the day. To assist with this, regularly

practice relaxation and/or meditation strategies.

Tip 18

Manage your time and priorities. Happy people tend

to believe they’re more in control of their lives. In

doing so, they’re more likely to take an active

approach to solving problems. If something’s not quite

right in your life, do something. And further, make sure

that what you’re doing is important. Put first things

first.

Tip 19

Control what you can control. Accept what you

can’t control. And learn to be wise enough to know the

difference.

Tip 20

Live in the present moment. The author, Henry

Miller once said Every moment is a golden one for

him who has the vision to recognise it as such.” The

only moment in which we can truly be happy is the

present moment. The only moment over which we

have control is the present moment. So be happy

now! Because if not now, then when?

Tip 21 – an EXTRA tip to make you happy!

Make happiness an integral part of your life.

Develop happiness routines and make them a part of

your every day living. Remind yourself however you

can to do what you need to do and reward yourself as

often as possible for doing what you’ve done.

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