Making kids eat their vegetables
It takes a great patience to see my kids eat. Especially, when they
have something totally unpalatable - to them, at least - like
vegetables. They go real sloooow. It is easy to lose your cool when you
suddenly remember that you did the same when you were their age.
Parenthood teaches you patience.
To
encourage my kids to eat their vegetables, I tell them what one of my
professor told our class all those years ago. It was a free period and
we were a noisy bunch. This professor was passing the class and peeped
in to see what was all the noise was about. He then gave us a small but
stern lecture the gist of which I will never forget in my life. He
said, "if you abhor study why don't you complete your studies as soon
as possible and get it out of the way?"
I tell my kids something similar:
You like ice-cream, don't you? How do you like to eat it? One lick at a time. You savor every lick before returning for the next. Why do you eat ice-cream that way? Because you want it to last forever. You hate vegetables, don't you? So what should you do? You want it to last forever? So? Eat it as fast as possible, so that you can get it out of your sight as quickly as possible. Do what you like for as long as possible. Complete what you do not like as quickly as possible. Especially when not doing (or eating) is not an option.
They seem to understand. Putting it into practice will take time, I know.
Actually, this lesson is applicable to us grown-ups also. How many times have you found an excuse of not doing something that is required to be done but you dislike the act? Like taking down the curtains for a wash. Or standing in the queue to pay the water bill (if you are not using the direct debut, that is)? You would rather do something that you enjoy. Watching your favourite sport being aired live, for instance. This despite the knowledge that issues do not go away or get resolved on their own and will keep gnawing at you till
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