DISCOVER THE 90/10 PRINCIPLE
I came across this theory sometimes ago. I thought I should share with you. It's very true and i promise it will change your life or at least, the way you react to situation.
So what is this principle?
-10% of life is made up of what happens to you.
-90% of life is decided by how you react....
What does it mean?
We really have NO control over 10% of what happens to us. We have NO control over this 10%. The other 90% is different. It's you who determine the other 90%.
HOW?.. By your reaction.
You cannot control a red light but you can control your reaction.
Do not let people fool you. YOU can control how you react.
To elaborate, let me give you an example.
You are having breakfast with you family. Your daughter knocks over a cup of coffee onto your business shirt.
You have no control over what has just happened.
What happens next will be determined by how you react.
You curse. You harshly scold your daughter or may hit your daughter for knocking the cup over. She breaks down in tears. After scolding her, you turn to your wife and you criticize her for placing the cup too close to the edge of the table. A short verbal battle follows.
You storm upstairs and change your shirt. Back downstairs, you find your daughter has been too busy crying to finish her breakfast and getting ready to go to school. She misses the bus. Your spouse must leave immediately for work. you rush to the care and drive your daughter to school. After a 15 minute delay, you arrive at school. Your daughter runs into the building without saying good-bye. After arriving at the office 20 minute late, you realize you forgot your briefcase. Your day has started terrible. As it continues, it seems to get worse and worse. You look forward to coming home. When you arrive home, you find a small wedge in your relationship with your wife and daughter.
WHY? Because of how you reacted in the morning.
Why did you have bad day?
A.) Did the coffee cause it?
B.) Did your daughter cause it?
C.) Did your wife cause it?
D.) Did you cause it?
The answer is "D"
You had no control over what happened with the coffee.
How you reacted in those 5 seconds is what caused your bad day.
Here is what could have and should have happened.
Coffee splashes over you. Your daughter is about to cry.
You gently say: " It's okay, honey, you just need to be more careful next time."
Grabbing a towel you go upstairs and change your shirt. You grab your briefcase and you come back down in time to look through the window and see your child getting on the bus. She turns and waves. You arrive 5 minutes early and cheerfully greet the staff.
DID YOU NOTICE THE DIFFERENCE?
Two different scenarios. Both started the same. Both ended different.
WHY?
Because of how you reacted. You really have no control over 10% of what happens in your life. The other 90% was determined by your reaction.
Now you know the 90/10 principle. Apply it and you will be amazed at the results. You will lose nothing if you try it. The 90/10 principle is incredible. Very few know and apply this principle.
THE RESULT?
You will see it by yourself.
Millions of people are suffering from undeserved stress, trails, problems and headaches. We all must understand and apply the 90/10 principle. It can change your life!
"It only takes willpower to give ourselves permission to make the experience."
Absolutely everything we do, give, say or even think, it's like a Boomerang.
It will come back to us.
If we want to receive, we need to learn to give first. May be we will end with our hands empty, but our heart will be filled with love.
And those who love life, have that feeling marked in their hearts.
I hope you liked this principle. Let me know how much you liked.
You are welcomed to join my network.
GOOD LUCK TO YOU!
So what is this principle?
-10% of life is made up of what happens to you.
-90% of life is decided by how you react....
What does it mean?
We really have NO control over 10% of what happens to us. We have NO control over this 10%. The other 90% is different. It's you who determine the other 90%.
HOW?.. By your reaction.
You cannot control a red light but you can control your reaction.
Do not let people fool you. YOU can control how you react.
To elaborate, let me give you an example.
You are having breakfast with you family. Your daughter knocks over a cup of coffee onto your business shirt.
You have no control over what has just happened.
What happens next will be determined by how you react.
You curse. You harshly scold your daughter or may hit your daughter for knocking the cup over. She breaks down in tears. After scolding her, you turn to your wife and you criticize her for placing the cup too close to the edge of the table. A short verbal battle follows.
You storm upstairs and change your shirt. Back downstairs, you find your daughter has been too busy crying to finish her breakfast and getting ready to go to school. She misses the bus. Your spouse must leave immediately for work. you rush to the care and drive your daughter to school. After a 15 minute delay, you arrive at school. Your daughter runs into the building without saying good-bye. After arriving at the office 20 minute late, you realize you forgot your briefcase. Your day has started terrible. As it continues, it seems to get worse and worse. You look forward to coming home. When you arrive home, you find a small wedge in your relationship with your wife and daughter.
WHY? Because of how you reacted in the morning.
Why did you have bad day?
A.) Did the coffee cause it?
B.) Did your daughter cause it?
C.) Did your wife cause it?
D.) Did you cause it?
The answer is "D"
You had no control over what happened with the coffee.
How you reacted in those 5 seconds is what caused your bad day.
Here is what could have and should have happened.
Coffee splashes over you. Your daughter is about to cry.
You gently say: " It's okay, honey, you just need to be more careful next time."
Grabbing a towel you go upstairs and change your shirt. You grab your briefcase and you come back down in time to look through the window and see your child getting on the bus. She turns and waves. You arrive 5 minutes early and cheerfully greet the staff.
DID YOU NOTICE THE DIFFERENCE?
Two different scenarios. Both started the same. Both ended different.
WHY?
Because of how you reacted. You really have no control over 10% of what happens in your life. The other 90% was determined by your reaction.
Now you know the 90/10 principle. Apply it and you will be amazed at the results. You will lose nothing if you try it. The 90/10 principle is incredible. Very few know and apply this principle.
THE RESULT?
You will see it by yourself.
Millions of people are suffering from undeserved stress, trails, problems and headaches. We all must understand and apply the 90/10 principle. It can change your life!
"It only takes willpower to give ourselves permission to make the experience."
Absolutely everything we do, give, say or even think, it's like a Boomerang.
It will come back to us.
If we want to receive, we need to learn to give first. May be we will end with our hands empty, but our heart will be filled with love.
And those who love life, have that feeling marked in their hearts.
I hope you liked this principle. Let me know how much you liked.
You are welcomed to join my network.
GOOD LUCK TO YOU!
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