That “BUT” is destroying our self esteem, which creates exhaustion and hopelessness in us which will finally end up as depression.

We may be very generous with those around us and take extra care when we deal with our friends & family.

But when we see the tender loving care we have rendered is not reciprocated, we literally fall apart. That is a very sad part of the life.

Well, let us take a deep breath and analyze the problem. Every one of us sees every one & everything through our own eyes.

We even think we can win every one with sex or money or any material goods. But sadly all those things are temporary and transient.

Fact of the matter is, every one of us comes to this world with a cart load of one’s own personal problems and worries [Karmic Debt.]

Every one, including the people you love, has their own personal destiny and each one of them are at different levels of spiritual maturity.

It is normal to expect “ love” in return, but please do not fall apart when you do not get that “love” you expected. It is not that the person you love, does not love you back.

The person whom you love looks at you according his or her own karmic debt and spiritual maturity. That is the problem. What you sees as white, other person may see as yellow or green.

The only answer to our problems is to seek within ourselves.

William Shakespeare wrote:

“All the world's a stage,

And all the men and women merely players;

They have their exits and their entrances.........,”

What Shakespeare wrote is very true.

Due to our karmic debt we meet in this world as FATHER, SON, DAUGHTER, LOVER etc in this world...

When each of us finish playing our part, we just move on....So we cannot expect any one to act or love the way we wanted.

Every one of us are just playing our own part after that we will leave this planet. That is the fact of life.

So what is the only pragmatic answer? “Love Thy Self ” and when you love someone else, just love that person “unmotivated with out any strings attached” Then you will have a great life.

You are NOT bad, since some one tells you that you are bad, You are NOT good, since some one tells you that you are good.

You are GOOD or BAD or SUCCESSFUL or FAILURE only when you decide you are....

If you look deep, you will see that the one and only person who loves you and I, is OURSELVES.....nobody else.


So for our own physical and mental welfare, we have to explore deep within ourselves and enjoy.

If and when you love others, please love them without any strings attached. In this way, you and I will have a great life.

All answers are within you.