The Relation: Life Blood of Humanity

I was inspired for this topic by it self…I mean, conceiving the thought to write on the said Topic. You must be thinking how it can be..? As from day one that this thought started developing in mind, I entered into Relation with this Thought. So in my own mind, in my own conscious and subconscious brain, Relation started breathing.

I will share more with you all, that to create and bring innovative ideas was wish of my wife and again someone from mass who felt that I can do well. That I must write was a wish of someone. So in both casees there was established relation. And so here I am with you, sharing and making bridge of our relation by this post and you all contributing by reading it.

Let us see in depth what is relation..? Type of relation? Why relation? What relations needs and can do.?

Truly Relation is life blood of mankind. As wel,l flows within.

I feel that it starts developing from Dream. The idea to write on this topic was first dream to me and then the thought was conceived. One lady conceives a dream to become Mother, so a Relation establishes with yet to be born baby from dreaming for baby it self. Then some mother sings mere ghar aayi ek nanhi pari…

Relations are Family relations, social relations, and professional relations and so on. In life I always categorized relations in labeled relation and another labeled relation.

Labeled Relation: Yes we all got most Labeled Relation. Each and every Face in the crowd carry many Labels like son/daughter, Brother/sister, husband/wife, uncle/aunty, in laws, Friend etc are family labeled and many more social and professional label. Any label got its limitation as well more demanding, and got expectations. Sometime it is indicating no bondage…and charm of emotion and natural behavior looses its charm.

Label-less Relation: These Relations are very unique and very best. As it is unconditional, nor demand or expect, full of care and love. It is the devotional kind which believes to give than demand. The person who got this kind relation I feel is very soulful and very close than any other. They got unique tuning among themselves, Best understanding, and very close, true, pure, honest, and loyalty among them. These are natural blessed relations. These are very rare and they are lucky, who can establish such a relation. But I think it is natural…no need to establish it, it just happens... The unique chemistry brings them close and together.

We have seen many such relations in history as well in our epics too. Relation between RAM and Navik , RAM and shabri, RAM and Hanuman, KRISHNA and Radha, KRISHNA and Sudama, KRISHNA and Arjun even Drupadi, Gandhiji and Meera ben, in day to day life we can see many GURU and SHISHYA, LIKE Chanakya and Chandragupta. Swami Ramkrishna and Swami Vivekananda. KRISHNA and Meerabai.. I would like to quote that why this topic attracted me to write. One fine day I was listening Laxmi Shankar’s collection and lines came to my ears which directly touched my soul due to its purity and divineness. It was like below...

OHH... KRISHNA WHERE ARE YOU..? THOUGH I CAN’T SEE YOU, I HEAR YOUR FLUTE ALL THE WAY. PLEASE COME WIPE MY TEARS AND MAKE ME SMILE... I AM MISSING YOU...

This was feeling of Meerabai for Krishna... Feeling of missing or feeling of total devotion...

If we think Meera’s relation with Krishna was not possible at all as there was big gap of period. But no one can deny their unique close relation...

Radha’s relation was of Love and meera’s relation was of Pain of missing. But common between them is Devotion and no demand as well as no condition…it was unconditional.

In which Relation we find soul, purity, feeling of serving, devotion, honesty, are divine one.

I have learnt some things by my own practice and experience which I would like to share as a tip for best relation as well for best outcome of human relations.

• Very prime and important, never mix up or complicate your relations. Give importance to any relation as needed.
• Relations are hard earned and ultimate reward of your life. So care for it with your heart. And maintain it. As to make relation may be easy but to maintain is difficult.
• What you say and what u commit, you must mean it, fulfill it.
• Never add hypocrisy in your relation, be true and pure. Never try to lie and keep in dark in your valued relation.
• There should be no expectation. It should be a feeling of giving, serving and helping. Utmost care adds best flavour in relation.
• Always focus on positive things in others. Ignore negativity. Grasp best out of others. Never try to advice or command.
• Your true thoughts and true feelings… let them flow. Don’t stop them and in the same way accept that from others.
• Best relation should be creative/innovative not de-creative. Make one plus one eleven not two.
• Do not after collection of non-labeled relation, be selective and less. Don’t be after numbers but keep only that much which u can maintain well and care it.
• Relations are your assets so don’t waste it as what relation can give no money can buy for you.

I am always attracted by psychology, philosophy of life, human behavior communication and yes relation. So I felt that whatever I learn by my study and experience I should put among my friends. So please do comment which may be part of my learning and enriching my knowledge.

At least my this post has helped me to make friendly relation with you all with real loving feelings and with my bunch of care for you all.