Be Happy And Enjoy Life
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Be happy and enjoy life

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What would it take to make you happy? Nothing! Being happy doesn't depend on a particular outcome or something happening to us. Happiness isn't something we find or discover. We can't go into a store and buy a bag of happiness. There is no place where we can go and find happiness sitting there waiting for us. Unfortunately many of us have been brought up to believe that something external can make us happy or we can find happiness somewhere. A relationship, boyfriend/girlfriend, marriage, money, success, better health, better job, better career, or a big house can make us happy? No! It is simply not true. Nothing can make us happy because happiness is a feeling. Happiness is something we experience. If we want to be happy then we should be happy. But we may not be happy because we spend most of our time focusing on what is wrong with our life. Happiness is a feeling that we experience when we appreciate the positive things in our life. We can't be happy doing something that we don't like. We also can't do something we really enjoy and be sad or angry.

So if we think that getting something will make us happy, we wrong, it’s not something.  If its money that you think will make you happy then it's really the financial security, the freedom that comes from being a millionaire will allow you to be happy, because you feel you'll then be able to do what you enjoy. Don't think that you can be happy by having something. To be happy start doing the things you enjoy. When you set goals you focus on doing what you enjoy. You have fun while achieving your goals when you choose the right one’s, the kind that allow you to be happy all the time. Focus on what you want. Start doing things that you enjoy. Look at the positive things that are going on in your life. Instead of looking at all that is wrong with your life, instead of looking at what you don't like about yourself or your life; change your focus. Start appreciating all that is good in your life.

Everyday there are wonderful things taking place in our life, yet we fail to observe and recognize these events or people. This can be anything from a warm meal to a wonderful spouse, family, etc. If we have a roof over our head, that's a positive aspect of our life. Start looking at all of the great and terrific things that are going on in your life and you'll begin to experience happiness on a deeper level. You can begin to improve or change the areas that you are not happy with but at the same time you should acknowledge the good things that are going on in your life.

Have fun and enjoy everything you do. Once you start doing this you'll enjoy it so much you'll wonder why you never did this to begin with. If you don't feel you have the time to have fun and enjoy your life then you're really saying that your happiness is not important enough.

 

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