Relationshipsare very sensitive, complicated and organized behavior. Mind is genuine andfinds different objectives; relationships are fluid because it is never satisfied.It is always self-centered and leads us to belief that everything in life isdedicated, and with the assumption that it needs self-gratification at everygiven time. We spare all efforts to seek this comfort zone, a grave mistake andunhealthy practice.

Psychologicaldependence is another burden of the mind, where individuals are dependent andlook for external support. This existence is dangerous and will posses a manforever. The ability to function independently and to risk consequences will disappearand always waits for sanctions. A frivolous character, which cannot meet well,ends in life.

Symbioticrelations are another state of human relationship, where interdependencebecomes chronic, and any upheaval results in a ruptured condition. Thissyndrome works superficially to a near clockwork mechanism, looks to be anideal state of being, but in reality, it is a pseudo security built on eachother’s frailties. Highly volatile conditions where mind becomes inconsistentand can be mislead.

Then,what is truly beneficial, and how Human relationship be built healthy and isuseful for individuals and society?

Anintrospection of self and a keener study of the implications as with respect toour society would certainly enlighten us, for a clearer understanding.

Aselfless mind, with the awareness of other people’s needs and requirements and witha conscience to make others happy, will create enlivening niche around withouthaving to sacrifice ones desires and aspirations. A strong will and maturity ofmind and body can take care by itself, under any human circumstance. Theability to decide what went wrong and why it went wrong will show light at theend of the tunnel. Human emotions such as self-pity, self-persecution, must notinterfere in the process of resolving problems.

Thinkgood for all, do good for all, and thrive in all round happiness, this willtake care all the food chain that is most craved for in our society. To livebest for yourself, you must live for others too. To exist in a full-fledgedhappy world, you must take care that every living being is taken in toconfidence. Your friends, neighbors, relatives all come into picture, if anyone needs help, do the very best you can , and

Neverexpect the same in turn. There lies profound wisdom and life of happiness foreveryone on this planet.

If youdo well, the heaven will open up for you, angels will support you. Your ownchemistry will change for the better. Never hurt others by your actions anddeeds, the nature of law will turn against you if you do otherwise, it willpunish you unfolding many hardships in your own destiny. You will become avictim for your own sins.

Thisis a confounded eternal truth, unbelievably.

Godgave us this wonderful planet earth for he expects us to live in harmony createmeaningful human bondage. Love and share our resources. If Governments, electedrepresentatives, capitalists dedicate themselves to eradicate poverty, all nationscan get rid of hunger and poverty. Selfishness in individuals, selfishnessnational scale, fanaticism in politics and nations, leads to innumerableissues, wars and anarchy will result.

Whereverwe go we carry the burden of ego, we transact in business, interact with ourfellow beings, and deal with domestic issues with a complex personality. Thisdismantles all sensitivity, overpowers harshness, and lets out the stream ofnegative energy. We distance ourselves from our true nature, and continue ourlifetime in ambiguity.

Tohave good, healthy human relationship, we need not go too personal and dependon internal security. We can retain relationships without having closer attachmentsand detachments of a raw type. As long as your mind is pure and devoid ofblemish, it can be very useful to you and for others.

Thereare no short cuts and limitations, or a clear definition for a healthy mind; itis a state of unbiased, unperturbed, desolate, intrinsic evaluation. Human mindis a divine, sacred experience; we must stop in our tracks to gain a certainhealthy momentum, and continue to live meaningfully on this planet.