Life is unpredictable; if change were to come it comes on its own accord launching thousand ships in one stroke. And can sink like the‘Titanic’ if the tides are un favorable.’

When the floods carry you away, it is best to hang on a floating log of wood, till such a time you get hold of a raft and picked by a giant ship. If you choose to waitfor a ship to rescue you, you are drowned.

Being flexible and to adopt oneself to varied circumstances would save lot of trouble. Building resistance will push us to frustrating experiences.Waiting for things to crop up to our desires do not take us anywhere, and nearan advantageous position. Accepting life for what it is and living it up, dose not mean surrendering or like compromising. It is an intelligent way of being ina valuable position.

When you accept someone or something in life, you see life in a better perspective than building concrete walls and barricades. Trying to impose your dogmas and thinking will not change anything and for not being accepted you fail. Good reason and logic are the best tools to be made use of during human interactions. To win people and to influence them and it is necessary to imagine one and to be in place of the other person’s predicament. Do lateral thinking to resolve the issue.

The moment you give an impression to the other man directly or indirectly that you are above him undermining his intelligence the communication process breaks down.

When the unexpected occurs, reaction to it should not be combative building resistance.

Stop and analyze in a calm state of mind, broadening the horizon, silently evaluating the minimal consequence with the awareness of the extreme repercussions. Stand upto the circumstances.

The pragmatic approach and execution and delivery need to be time bound. Nobody can surpass ones own Karma but there is a way of relieving the impact, so as to sustain the blow. Heaven is merciful on us for no effect can totally destroy or weaken us.God has chartered each one of us for a superior intent. And the onerous lifecycle is to be completed.

Going against his ordained command, we would denigrate our birth. With no frills attached we needto go ahead in life. Support what is a good and nurture human value at any cost.

Emotions and sentiments should not interfere in decision-making process. One needs to be practical and take appropriate measures; if we permit emotions to rule us we would be taking wrong decisions in life. Only impartial judgment of the reality of life would set us free. To do best what we can do toof lives is perhaps the best recourse.

By accepting life as it comes we are not only making our life comfortable, but also we are making other people live happy. Acceptance is not resignation; acceptance is winning, and sure sign of intelligence. It should not be misunderstood that acceptance would render us to be always giving and losing the battle. An intelligent person is not a show off, will not contradict and neither gets into arguments. He is a unique individual and has exemplary character. The art of acceptance has to come by experience and from the intellect.This art cannot be acquired overnight and it comes by practice. To get a hang of this art one has to cultivate an intellectual bent of mind. Discarding parochial thinking and thinking above board.

Attitude generating from the common herd, the mob mentality is totally conditioned, reflecting what the leader in charge commands. In a depth analysis,conditional thinking rendered into a package. We need to disown any type of attitude and do independent thinking. When you approach a person, go with an intention of winning the person and to impress him sincerely. Strategy to mislead the other party or to take advantage would all be a futile experience.One should not play any deceptive mind games and camouflage, in order to achieve selfish motives. One needs to be humble and modest in all of life’s interactions. If we are sincere to our own self, sincere to other and sincere towards society, we can attain much greater heights. If you miss represent you would be misrepresenting the society itself. Human dignity and respect should prevail so as to up hold the sanctity of human birth.

God has given us every blessing, we only need to make use of it with gratitude and show our humility. Representing the good we need to enhance and better our lives. We should not undermine the value of any living sole and in fact try to protect all its dignity. It’s only when you respect others, your due share of respect comes to you. Man is a social animal and he has to mingle with others, and be a team player. He is not an animal living all alone in the jungle. There is in fact symbiotic relationship in man, which he cannot disown.

All human circumstances can be lived, sustained by practice of greater faith and convictions. We are not assured of congenial factors favoring our lives. Made up of flesh and blood we are susceptible to injuries, hurt, and disease.

Happiness is not a perennial promise; it is in fact a condition, a state of mind.

Either in our mundane life or in ill health, if something untoward accidents occur, we must develop a strong free will and look for positive aspects to reinforce our future prospective. Stand up to all that is in store for us. Bemoaning and getting afflicted with remorse simply will not help. We cannot posses’ superhuman powers and erase all our difficulties by the magic wand.

We must live every minute of our existence as if it is a drop of precious water, for water can take any shape and acclimatize to any dimension in given space and time, yet retaining its material content.

We must live not in any anticipation but proceed with the intention to tide over any incidents that could occur. And exist by free will.

Personal attitude should not interfere with public affairs and cause damage. One should have universal outlook and must blend comfortably in larger interests. An individual has no rights whatsoever to step up and come in between progress and growth. Seeking the right road and continuing the journey in strength and conviction, taking the road as it leads, must be the criterion.One should have accommodating spirit, guide and motivate others and have acongenial relationship. In synergy we need to produce and achieve all objectives.

As long as the human relationship is intact, and things achieved in unison there cannot be any pitfalls. Understanding others and contributing your might to collectively achieve greater things will become creative.

We must cultivate and nurture free mind free thought, free from anytype of inhibitions restricting our personality. Open our hearts and mind to entertain lofty ideals and ideas to lead a clean life. The more we play the mind games towards each other we will be distancing ourselves from actual life.A troubled mind is always at crossroads and it can never find its way back.

Personal attitudes can strongly glue us down to failure and closet us to a life of non-decrepit world of chaos.

Modern life in our society has totally distanced one human being from another putting a blanket fully on core values and morals. We do not trust each other any more.

We live like animals fighting for food, wealth and security. We do not show concern when our neighbor is not well. Stand like dumb spectators scared of risk involvement.Families have lost family values, hiding from each other, turning out to be the strangers not belonging to each other.

There lies a wonderful life of abundance, peace and tranquility in a matured mind and body. The mind, which is unperturbed and is free from turmoil, enriches the elemental assets of Happiness and joy. And also by extending happiness to others who are deprived of it. Sharing, confiding realities of our lives mutually benefits. Being nearer to one another at times of distress and personal misfortune brings in security. With Selfishness and greed thinking that we can overcome the consequences, all by ourselves and getting stuck, in our own threshold and, into a quagmire of endless suffering.

For a mind-boggling issue there is a tactical way out. We seek an endless life of security and strive for it.

Coming back to life and all living it up haunts the sick and the ailing. They never want to rest in peace. They can not believe any thing of eternal value, only a desire kept alive attached to this material world.