The Fear Syndrome
The psychology of fear germinates mostly from within,in the absence of spiritual well-being and uprightness. A weak mind bogs down under pressure and loses control. When the mind cannot take more than it can chew, it spills out in different forms.
Our lives are intricate, seamlessly interwoven with risks, and consequently susceptible to wear and tear. The ability to survive and sustain these challenges depends upon a host of disciplines.
When responsibility is accepted, one should focus mainly on achieving it, striving for it, with total commitment. Conflicts of any kind do not arise if devoted attention given to it. It is a process where you take care of impending issues, resolve present issues, and go about minimizing risk, anxiety and associated fear complex. It is all about dealing with a well-grounded strategy to deal with life.
Incomplete, halfhearted approach towards the attainment of -Objectivity will lead on to risks that are open to gaps and loopholes, and if not dealt timely, may devastate and depreciate situations.
The accompanying impediments, such as anxiety and fear may become aggravated and become chronic at times, and irreversible.
Obsessive concern towards the future or a weakness,wallowing in the past is very bad for mental health. It helps neither in the present nor in the past or future. You must do your duty in earnestness and must not count on results.
The best of seeds germinate to good offspring and the lesser ones may die or survive, struggle for existence.
Fear is avoidance; an escape to find roots for comforts, life must be lived in the consequence of realities. There is no substitute for facing the different onset of circumstances, which poses in our lives in staunch faith and personal convictions. Destiny may drive badly or good, even worse,it is our preparedness and good faith that needs a rightful place in our lives.
Ability to remain unruffled in both mind and body would resurrect us. There is no doubt,no questions asked, or even saying ‘But, why me’? This should not have happened to us.
When misfortunes strike us, it is God’s wish, he is our destiny, and he knows and assigns us to a different circumstances and pathways.When he finds that the pattern of life should change, he would revamp our lives.
No human circumstance can permanently stay and dominate or overpower us; the tidal waves would sweep without our awareness. If only you step back, and see with your subtle mind, you would realize that God’s intentions were after all, are much loftier and aimed at higher justice! unlike us, God is beyond human attachments and frailties, he works in devious ways,his intentions are too broad spectrum, and is always merciful.
Fear, once it sprouts will encompass all boundaries of our lives. It is a malady, which would push us into lies, deceit and plunder. It is a vicious circle slowly engulfs us to lead a false life. It can render our lives terribly insecure and weaken the very moral fiber, dampen our spirits.
A superior being is not perturbed, despite his human circumstances and misfortunes, he is not over exited if fortunes smiles on him either, and he views everything on a common platform. There is no shame, apathy and dampness. He walks with his head high accepting the God’s verdict in his life.
Fearlessness comes out of a determination, having done a full share of efforts in a pragmatic way, leaving no stone unturned.Confidence, convictions and faith are the hallmarks of a strong willed person.
Do not indulge in playing mental games with others, it will not help you in the least , at the end it leaves only bitter feelings and and lead you to unhappiness. Do not underestimate anybody and show superiority, you will humiliate yourself, matured people could use their power of intellect and wisdom and make you look like an ignoramus.
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