To get Self Motivated
If you want to excel in life, self
motivation is essential. You must know how to motivate yourself. You must be
able to keep your spirit high no matter how discouraging a situation is. That’s
the only way to get the power you need to overcome difficulties. Those who are
discouraged in difficult times are certain to lose even before the battle is
over.
The question is: how do you motivate
yourself? Here are several tips I’ve found to be effective to build self
motivation:
1. Have a cause
I can’t think of a more powerful
source of motivation than a cause you care about. Such cause can inspire you to
give your best even in the face of difficulties. It can make you do the
seemingly impossible things.
2. Have a dream. A big dream.
Only as high as I reach can I grow,
only as far as I seek can I go, only as deep as I look can I see, only as much
as I dream can I be.
3. Be hungry
To be truly motivated, you need to
have hunger and not just desire. Your cause and your dream play
a big role here. If you have a cause you care about and a big dream related to
it, you should have the hunger inside of you. If you think that you are losing
hunger, all you need to do is to connect again to your cause and dream. Let
them inspire you and bring the hunger back.
4. Run your own race
Comparing yourself with others is an effective way to de-motivate yourself. Even if you start
with enthusiasm, you will soon lose your energy when you compare yourself with
others.
Don’t let that happen to you. You
have your own race so how other people perform is irrelevant. The only
competitor you have is yourself. The only one you need to beat is you.
5. Take one more step
When you meet obstacles along the way, there could be the
tendency to quit. You may think that it’s too difficult to move on. You may
think that your dream is impossible to achieve. But this is where you can see
the difference between winners and losers. Though both of them face the same
difficulties, there is one thing that makes the winners different: the courage to continue.
In difficult situations, just focus on taking one more step
forward. Don’t think about how to complete the race. Don’t think about how many
more obstacles are waiting for you. Just focus on taking the next step.
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