Happy Mother Day...
... is the million things she gave me,
... means only that she's growing old,
... is for the tears she shed to save me,
... is for for her heart of purest gold;
... is for her eyes, with love-light shining,
... means right, and right she'll always be
Mother's Day
is a time of commemoration and celebration for Mom. It is a time of breakfast
in bed, family gatherings, and crayon scribbled "I Love You".
History
The
first celebrations in honour of mothers were held in the spring in ancient
Greece. They paid tribute to Rhea, the Mother of the Gods. During the 17th century, England honoured mothers on
"Mothering Sunday," celebrated on the fourth Sunday of Lent.
In
the United States, Julia Ward Howe suggested the idea of Mother's Day in 1872.
Who wrote the words to the Battle
Hymn of the Republic, saw Mother's Day as being dedicated to peace.
Anna
Jarvis of Philadelphia is credited with bringing about the official observance
of Mother's Day. Her campaign to establish such a holiday began as a
remembrance of her mother, who died in 1905 and who had, in the late 19th century, tried to establish
"Mother's Friendship Days" as a way to heal the scars of the Civil
War.
Two
years after her mother died, Jarvis held a ceremony in Grafton, W. Va., to
honour her. She was so moved by the proceedings that she began a massive
campaign to adopt a formal holiday honouring mothers. In 1910, West Virginia
became the first state to recognize Mother's Day. A year later, nearly every
state officially marked the day. In 1914, President Woodrow Wilson officially
proclaimed Mother's Day as a national holiday to be held on the second Sunday of
May But Jarvis' accomplishment soon turned bitter for her. Enraged by the
commercialisation of the holiday, she filed a lawsuit to stop a 1923 Mother's
Day festival and was even arrested for disturbing the peace at a war mothers'
convention where women sold white carnations -- Jarvis' symbol for mothers --
to raise money. "This is not what I intended," Jarvis said. "I
wanted it to be a day of sentiment, not profit!"
When
she died in 1948, at age 84, Jarvis had become a woman of great ironies. Never
a mother herself, her maternal fortune dissipated by her efforts to stop the
commercialisation of the holiday she had founded, Jarvis told a reporter
shortly before her death that she was sorry she had ever started Mother's Day.
She spoke these words in a nursing home where every Mother's Day her room had
been filled with cards from all over the world.
Today,
because and despite Jarvis' efforts, many celebrations of Mother's Days are
held throughout the world. Although they do not all fall at the same time, such
countries as Denmark, Finland, Italy, Turkey, Australia and Belgium also
celebrate Mother's Day on the same Basic Facts And Beginnings:
The
second Sunday in May is observed as Mother's Day in most countries of the
world. But it was not always so. Not very long ago, a festival called
'Mothering Sunday' or 'Mid-Lent Sunday' was celebrated in England on the fourth
Sunday in Lent. The celebrations were surprisingly similar to the modern way of
celebrating Mother's Day.
The First Mother's Day, as
we know it now days, was observed on May 10, 1908, in a church in Philadelphia,
Pennsylvania. The celebrations involved a church service in honour of Mrs. Anna
Reese Jarvis, mother of Anna Jarvis.
Four years later, the Mother's Day International Association was created, on
December 12, 1912, to spread the concept and practice of observing Mother's
Day. The very next year, in May 1913, the House of Representatives of the US
government adopted a resolution requesting the President, his Cabinet, members
of Congress, and all officials of the federal government to wear a white
carnation on Mother's Day.
And finally, on May 8, 1914, the Congress passed a Joint Resolution designating
the second Sunday in May as Mother's Day.
Mother's Day In India
The practice
of celebrating the Mother is not alien to India. For thousands of years Hindus
have been celebrating a ten-day festival, Durga Puja, honouring the divine
mother Durga, in early October. But the more personal festival of 'Mother's
Day' has also come to become a part of our culture now. What it offers is an
opportunity to honour and show our appreciation for our flesh and blood mother
- the one person who has stood by us through thick and thin.Hindu
scripture credits the Great Mother, Kali
Ma, with the invention of writing through alphabets, pictographs and
beautiful sacred images.
Buddha
honoured mothers when he said, "As a mother, even at the risk of her own
life, loves and protects her child, so let a man cultivate love without measure
toward the whole world."
In
India there is a ten-day festival known as Durga
Puja, which is held in early October. The festival honours Durga, the
"Divine Mother". She is the most important of all Hindu goddesses.
However,
in India, Mother's Day is observed mostly in cities, where people are more in
contact with cultural traditions of the rest of the world.
What You Can
Do On Mother's Day !
Given below are a few tips to express your love and appreciation for your
mother-
- Visit or call your mother and surprise her by
telling her you still remember how she used to care for you.
- Remember to illustrate your point with
reminiscences of your childhood.
- Send her a card or flowers with a poem
specially written for her (never mind if it is not perfect).
- Take her out to dinner or cook for her.
- Take her out for a dance, and tell her she is
your first girlfriend and the first woman in your life.
- Wear a red carnation with a smile.
- Surprise her by making breakfast this Sunday.
Think of any one woman, other than your own mother, who has been a mother figure to you, and surprise her by visiting her with a box of chocolates.
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