I am giving here on this post my scientific findings about this important topic. We often see that homosexuality mentioned as one thing and either condemned or appreciated that way. However, as I said earlier, homosexuality in women and that in men is not the same as far as its merits and demerits are concerned. We also see that homosexual women and men come on street together to get acceptance for homosexual relations by the society however, they are not the same and this happens because women who want to support it do not know the difference in the two. This is because homosexuality in women and that in men are not the same; the difference caused by the fact that women homosexuality could be helpful to them while that in man is never good for any body. Society may accept homosexuality in women but should never give acceptance to that of men. Here I give my research findings on this topic. I have given my findings on female homosexuality in the earlier posting. 

Homosexuality in women could be a good thing if it is giving relief to the woman involved and that phenomenon is based on natural requirements of those women. In case of homosexuality in men, that is not the situation. Homosexuality in man is not a natural requirement but it is due to certain complexes in the minds of concerned man. No man born to be homosexual naturally, but due to some mental complexes, he begins to avoid contact with a woman. This may occur as he comes in contact with a woman for the first time, during the intercourse a natural suction at vagina he experiences. That is the way nature wants to assure the flow of semen towards the ovary to cause conception successfully. This suction could be very strong in case of some women (stronger the desire for sex in woman stronger is the suction) and this some times unnerves the man. Quite often, this leads to a mental complex in that man, making him feel inferior to the woman. A sense of defeat he develops and that disturb him most. If this happens, he begins to avoid contact with woman. When such two men happen to meet, a homosexual relation can develop out of mutual need for sexual urge in them. Here we should understand that the man in the homosexual act generally indulge in a sodomy. In this, penetration happens in the anus instead of vagina. There no suction takes place. As a result, that person does not feel that guilty sense which he would when having sex with a woman in her vagina. All these happen to men who have scant respect for women. As the suction demoralizes him, his corrupt ego hurts; this very often leads to many unhealthy reactions from him. Here we should also note that if the intercourse is by mutual consent, the suction is best as the woman also enjoys the act but if that is per force such as rape, then the suction may not happen and that these men prefer. That is the reason why such corrupt men often prefer to rape their wife rather than encourage a mutually consented act. Here that woman does not understand why her husband prefers to rape her instead of proper intercourse and that often leads to many complicated situations. This suction may cause total exhaustion for the man after the act of sex. In case of a normal man, this experience he takes in a stride and accepts that as a part of the act and very often enjoys it particularly if he has respect for his wife, the love grows in them. Alternatively some men depend on masturbation to get sexual relief but this solitary act does not satisfy the ego complex and so those who have this complex insist for sodomy and indulge in homosexual activity.  

Here I should point out that the term rape defined in many ways; here the definition is, intercourse done without foreplay, with consent or without. 

When two men indulge in homosexual act, often one of them acts as a husband and the other has to be wife. There we see that the act is in a way forced on the wife partner who could be many a time a small helpless boy or a eunuch. Some times the partners in the homosexual relation behave as equal and in that case, they alternate the position of husband and wife. 

All research has clearly shown that this homosexual relation amongst the men is due to corrupt mind and so cannot be termed as healthy even though we see these people insist that their relation is natural. Any act based on defected mind, society and also Law cannot accept as normal act and so homosexuality in men cannot become an acceptable act for society and Law. 

Homosexuality of men leads to many criminal acts, encourages perverted life style, and so, up to now no sensible society has accepted this relation as natural. We see a lot of propaganda made by these men to get acceptance by the society but it is a good thing that as yet they are not successful in their wile attempt to get this corrupt relation any approval by society. However, I will not be surprised if a homosexual judge allows this act legitimacy. So far, judges hearing these cases are not homosexual and so this corrupt behavior has not received any acceptance by the law. If such abnormal behavior gets approval of society or law next demand will be to accept murder and robbing for approval.  

Homosexual man if married insists to his wife that she should allow him sodomy instead of intercourse. Because in that act there is no suction however, wife refuses for that and we see fights in them on that issue. Very often wife bashing is the end result, may even cause divorce. These men prefer small boys or girls for sodomy act. When these girls checked for any act of rape often, result is negative but no test possible for sodomy and so that goes undetected. 

Finally, my search showed to me that there is no remedy for this sickness since, it is based on mental disorder. If boys, brought up in atmosphere where girls and boys treated as equal that will help reduce incidence of homosexuality. Some suggest that superiority complex amongst men against women is responsible for this sickness. 

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