You will think , oh my god this guy do not have any other work? I am sorry to say that but yes I have other work to do but I have time for this as well.

Today I will not tell you any story or give you any gyan. This is directly from my dil se talk.

I have received many mails and many replies and I came to know that everybody is using others word. For example Gandhi Ji say that and Nehru ji say this. My dear friends just belive me those words will never ever help you.

Surprise, I know you are surprised by read this but its true.

Let me explain the things for you. Everyday is a new day and nothing is constant in life. Situations change everyday now and than. Then how can a word which delivered in past by someone will help you in every situation. Dear friends I am not so good in english but yes I can tell you what I am thinking.

The main funda is that yes you can gain experince and use. But its like that kill very snake bcoz once upon a time a man died due to snake bite. Do you know that only less than 50% snake are dangerours. Decision is yours only.

Not a single thing is like with other thing in this world even your eyes, fingures and everything. So what is the message behind this article.

The message is " its good to hear and read others but never ever follow them blindly just bcoz of it was deliverd by great person". Use your own mind and analyise the situation then take step as per your capabilities.

Use your own skills to come over the problems and do not think anyone can help you or fight for you. They might be say that yes I can understand your problem and I will help you. But dear the fact is that they can not help you. The question is why? The answer is bcoz its your problem and if you do not want to solve your problem then why should other do that work for you.

Ok I assume that someone can solve your problem but how many times. If he is ready everytime then again its a problem for you. He/she is oliging you and you have to oblige him/her in future and the problem is you can not do anything. If you can do anything then why you have taken help from others. If you will not help them then can insult you at anytime.

No matter how much weak you are but you have to fight and be a leader for your self. Do not follow others, make your own statement and try to follow that only then you will be a winner.

He is rich and he is powerfull but what is the benifit you will get. For example Ratan Tata is very rich but will he give his bed to Ramu to sleep, who is working for him. No never, dear its a fact.

Belive me the only one person can change your life and that is non other than you. Nobody is best than you bcoz if they are best then belive me there is always a place for better than best.

I can give you so many example but again they can not be fit 100 % bcoz nothing is similar in this world.

If you have any other opinion then share with me. I would love to talk to you.

The debate is open here and I am challeging you. Please catch me and win the match if you can.

Thanks & Regards

Alok