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Managing stress in tense life
The today’s environment is stressful for everyone, may be
in service or in business, for students or professors, for working women or
housewives, etc. In order to beat stress, we have to remain alert and apply
some tips. Following are some ways how to manage the stress.
- Have realistic expectations: Recognize your limits. Whether personally or professionally, be practical about how much you can do. Put limits for yourself and discover to say “no” to more work and commitments.
- Reframe problems: See problems as opportunities. As a result of positive thinking, you will be able to handle whatever is causing your stress. Refute negative thoughts and try to see the glass as half full. It is easy to fall into the groove of seeing only the negative when you are stressed. Your thoughts can become like a pair of dark glasses, allowing little light or joy into your life.
- Maintain your sense of humor: This includes the ability to laugh at yourself. Watch a funny movie: the sillier the plot the better. The act of laughing helps your body fight stress in a number of ways.
- Express your feelings instead of bottling them up: In order to live a less stressful life, learn to calm your emotions. A good cry during periods of stress, or sharing your concerns with someone you trust can be healthy ways to bring relief to your anxiety.
- Don’t try to control events or other people: Many circumstances in life are beyond your control, particularly the behavior of others. Consider that we live in an imperfect world. Learn to accept what is, for now, until the time comes when perhaps you can change things.
- Ask yourself “Is this my problem?” If it isn't, leave it alone. If it is, can you resolve it now? Once the problem is settled, leave it alone. Don't agonize over the decision, and try to accept situations you cannot change.
The stress is unavoidable and it
will come to everybody’s life in one way or another. We have to accept the
challenge and give a fight to combat the stress. There are regular guidelines and
ways of acting in which manner we can prevent the stress.
- Manage time: One of the greatest sources of stress is over-commitment or poor time management. Plan ahead. Make a reasonable schedule for yourself and include time for stress reduction as a regular part of your schedule. When you try to take care of everything at once it can seem overwhelming and as a result, you may not accomplish anything. Instead, make a list of what tasks you have to do, and then complete them one at a time, checking them off as they're completed.
- Give priority to the most important tasks and do those first: If a particularly unpleasant task faces you, tackle it early in the day and get it over with. You will experience less anxiety the rest of the day as a result. Most importantly, do not overwork yourself. Resist the temptation to schedule things back-to-back. All too often, we underestimate how long things will take.
- Schedule time for both work and recreation: Too much studying or working is actually inefficient and can lead to burnout.
- Delegate tasks and break up big projects: Being efficient and effective means you must delegate tasks and prioritize, schedule, budget and plan your precious time. Aim to work in short, intensive periods, which allow you to rest in between. Break big projects into smaller, more manageable tasks so you don’t feel overwhelmed and nothing gets done as a result.
In this way, we can be somewhat relax from being tense and may convert the situation in our favor. The above tactics and ways are most useful to fight the stress. They help us in better living in current condition of our stressful life.
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