Parenting - Do We Remember Or Is It A History ????
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Parenting - Do we remember or is it a history ????

Quality Manager - Black Belt
Minutes before i was speaking to a friend of mine about the previos blog i have written and then came this topic - PARENTING , a nice and serious food for thought..... Are we actually think about this at all or are the couples getting married trying to know about this , i think thhere is a straight no no from all the sides....

PARENTING , such an important part of life and never discussed, i know a lot of pople who are engaged and due for their marriages in the coming season, we discuss about their courtship period over a cup of coffee... everything is discussed between the couples except parenting .... they will discuss the wedding dress, song on which they are going to dance, location and duration of honeymoon , positions and postures after marriage ,list of people to be invited , number of kids they are going to have and in which year but there is no space or even thought of parenting .....

I over heard a lot og couples saying that they don't need kids as they are happy with the kind of life they are living , without any strings attached, i laugh at them thinking about the scenerio as what would have happened if their parents too have thought the same, there existence only would have been in doubt.....

O.K....Coming back to the essence, parenting is all about what , when , how they plan for the broughtup of their kids .... there are certain values which are very much required to embedded in the kids at an early stage.... I can recall an incident in my own family where the mother says to his kid, Beta, listen i have kept all your toys aside as i know that you dont like sharing it with your friend when he visits you .... WOW , what a value being passed on to the kid .... the parents will wonder at the later half of life when they are in need of support from their kids as to why there kid is not sharing things with them .... BOSS these are the values that you have given him / her when he/she was young.....

GOD KNOWS WHAT WILL HAPPEN .... BUT I SERIOUSLY KNOW THAT IF I AM NOT A PRT OF THIS SHIT THEN I WILL BE THE ONLY ONE WHO WILL BE SAVED FROM ALL THIS CRAP AND NOW I THINK THAT THE T-SHIRT I WEAR IS PERFECT AS IT SAYS ... WORLD IS GOING TO HELL AND I AM DRIVING THE BUS .....

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