Abraham Lincoln's letter to his son's Headmaster
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He will have to learn, I know, that all men are not just, all men are not true.
But teach him also that for every scoundrel there is a hero: that for every
selfish politician, there is a dedicated leader…. Teach him that for every
enemy there is a friend, it will take time, I know; but teach him if you can,
that a dollar earned is of far more value than five found…. Teach him to learn
to lose and also to enjoy winning. Steer him away from envy, if you can. Teach
him the secret of quiet laughter. Let him learn early that the bullies are the
easiest to lick… Teach him, if you can, the wonder of books… but also give him
quiet time to ponder over the eternal mystery of birds in the sky, bees in the
sun and flowers on a green hillside.
In
school, teach him it is far more honorable to fail than to cheat… Teach him to
have faith in his own ideas, even if everyone tells him they are wrong… Teach
him to be gentle with gentle people and tough with the tough. Try to give my
son the strength not to follow the crown when everyone is getting onto the
bandwagon, teach him to listen to all men, but teach him also to filter
all he hears on a screen of truth and take only the good that comes through.
Teach
him, if you can, how to laugh when he is sad… Teach him there is no shame in
tears. Teach him to scoff at cynics and to beware of too much sweetness…Teach
him to sell his brawn and brain to the highest bidders; but never to put a
price tag on his heart and soul. Teach him to close his ears to a howling mob…
and to stand and fight if he thinks he is right.
Treat
him gently; but do not cuddle him because only the test of fire makes fine
steel. Let him have the courage to be impatient… let him have the patience to
be brave. Teach him to always have sublime faith in himself because then he
will always have sublime faith in mankind.
This
is a big order, but see what you can do… he is such a fine little fellow, my
son."
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