SAY IT AND FEEL THE RELIEF
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SAY IT AND FEEL THE RELIEF

Editor and C M D

We all know that life is uncertain, and a thing at times happens unknowingly. Life has never been a bed of roses for anyone. There has been time when we, unintentionally argue with our partner or friend or colleague and end up in quarrel, disputes. Which later on make us feel regret and low and we wish to makeup as soon as possible.

The most important thing to make up is to admit our mistake and apologize for our behavior. It takes a great deal of character strength to apologize quickly out of one’s heart rather than out of pity. The word “SORRY” has a great importance in every person life, and they play a very crucial role. We say sorry to make the other person realize that we have understood our mistake and our regretful for that.

We all know that nobody is perfect and we do mistakes in our daily life. Apologies expose feelings of regret for the words and action which are often said to address that the words spoken or action that had been taken was unintentional and the person never wished to do so.

It happens at time that we really find ourselves unable to express our regret for what we have done. We really don’t know how to apologize. We are not aware of the best approach for saying sorry. We should always keep in mind that we should say sorry only if we genuinely feel sorry. We should not lie or cheat ourselves.

One thing should always be kept in mind that we should not start arguing and pointing out other mistake or start discussing the cause of the action. Once we have decided to say sorry just say and end the topic. No need for further discussion

Always keep in mind that your posture and body language means a lot in convincing the person. While expressing your feelings always look into the eyes of the person and stay calm no matter how long they take to respond, have patients as the person may take a little more time to accept your sorry, don’t lose your temper and stay polite.

As soon as you accepted the fault, give sometime to your partner to cool off a bit and then apologize, It is better you meet the person and then say sorry rather than saying on phone or sending him/her a text message. If some are still unable to express their apology they should write an apology note for forgiving their faults.

There are many different ways to apologize. Apology gifts adds extra touch to your feelings, these gifts are effective for convincing the person that u are really feeling sorry. The gift tells the person that they are really special to us and their presence in our life is really necessary.

You can say sorry with flowers, a card, a suitable apology quote or a small gift, you can even take your friend, relative, spouse for a date, dinner or coffee. it will be a sweet gesture and you will be appreciated.

It is truly said by Margaret Lee Runbeck- “Apology is a lovely perfume, it can transform the clumsiest moment into a gracious gift”.

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