What Not to Say About Someone's Appearance

Don't say: "You look tired."

Why: It implies she doesn't look good.

Instead say: "Is everything OK?" We often blurt the "tired" comment when

we get the sense that the other person feels out of sorts. So just ask.

Don't say: "Wow, you've lost a ton of weight!"

Why: To a newly trim person, it might give the impression that she used to

look unattractive.

Instead say: "You look fantastic." And leave it at that. If you're curious

about how she got so svelte, add, "What's your secret?"

Don't say: "You look good for your age."

Why: Anything with a caveat like this is rude. It's saying, "You look great

compared with other old people. It's amazing you have all your own teeth."

Instead say: "You look great."

Don't say: "I could never wear that."

Why: It can be misunderstood as a criticism. ("I could never wear that

because it's so ugly.")

Instead say: "You look so good in skinny jeans." If you slip, say something

like "I could never wear that…because I wasn't blessed with your long legs."

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