Most of the time we keep on changing our life sometime we succeed, sometime we fail. You may wonder that why we fail? Even though our best efforts, we are not able to succeed all the time! But there is not any reason to panic, just have some patience.

The reason behind our failure is not our efforts to change our life but the changing of attitude, most of us keep on changing our lives without changing our attitude! And here comes the real obstacle, which creates all the difficulties. Because attitude is the backbone of our personality and the way we live our life, and carry on in different situation. Infact it is the attitude which becomes instrumental in forming certain situation in our life.
So before changing our life for any reason, we should try to change attitude towards life. And you will find that the change we want in our life is already taking shape effortlessly! Definitely it is not ferry tale like experiment, it takes a lot of guts and perseverance to change our attitude, since the attitude we have is formed over the time with experiences we had in past and it has certain reason to form in such way. May be our attitude is not wrong in our own view but here is not the matter of right or wrong attitude. Since there is nothing right or wrong in anything we experience. It is the human perception about different eventuality. If it favours someone he will justify it right and if it does not favour him he will justify it as wrong. So the matter is if we want change in our life, we need to change our attitude first, no matter it is right or wrong. It is like if we say the glass is half empty, it will give us dissatisfaction of glass not filled up completely. But if we say the glass is half filled, then we will have satisfaction of having a glass half filled and not totally empty!

So whenever we find reason to change our life, we need to check our attitude first, most of the problems will disappear without any significant change in our lives.

Now you may ask that how to change attitude? Then my friends, it is as simple as changing the clothes. Whatever the extent you love a certain pair of clothes you bought three years back, you will have to leave them once they got damaged after extensive use! You can not carry on with those torn clothes for rest of your life since they were your favorites! With time passes by you have to change your clothes, may be due to damaged fabric, faded colour or unfit size! So do not hesitate in changing your clothes and get some new pair to look attractive, presentable and feel comfortable. The same rule applies to your attitude too, once it gets old fashioned, confused and unacceptable to carry on, you should change it before people start keeping a distance from you, and you find yourself left behind. It will be a pleasant experience of change for better.
Now you may ask that why it is you to change attitude? Then my friend it is the clothes of your soul, and for that reason you will have to change them, changing others attitude will not help you better your life. Most of us are busy in changing other peoples attitude for our comfort but it is like clapping with one hand, or throwing light on a mirror. It will bounce back instantly to our face!

Accept the simple logic of life, the way your clothes get dirty and faded with repeated use, constant influence of different eventualities and belief system of which you do not have real experience, malign your attitude and you get confused in life, if you carry on changing your life with that confused attitude, you may not succeed in changing your life, but if you change your attitude first, success is inevitable.