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Personality Development planning step 1
Welcome to “THE NEW YOU”
In a world, where change is the only constant, we say, it’s not survival of fittest but its survival of the reinvented!
Life is too short to succumb to mediocrity. Don’t get stuck with circumstances that you don’t want to be in. we are going to help you figure out what is it that you truly want from life. It’s right there in your subconscious mind but you need to get it out, and make it a reality. That’s what this e-course aims to achieve.
In today’s session, we are going to analyze how you perceive success. This information will act like a pointer to tell you your position in life now in relation to where you want to be.
This interesting session can really open new doors for you.
So, grab a coffee, get a pen and get set for this week’s session and kick start your mutation process!
Understanding yourself
In this fast track hectic life have you ever slowed down and wondered what am I doing here?
You seem to be always on the move, busy coping with the various demands of different situations in life or trying to stay ahead of them. If anyone asked you why, you would most
probably say ‘because I want to be a success in life’.
However what exactly success in life entails seems elusive.
You never know whether you would live again. Therefore, you might get only one chance to find out what your life is about. It would be so dismal if in our end moments, we still have a
wish list open, and lots of regrets.
In this session we have some mind encroaching exercises to help you discover what your life is really about. Just a word of caution, do this with an open mind and things will fall right in
place.
Let’s start with what you perceive success in life to be.
What is success? How to Argue and Win Every Time
Different people perceive success differently at different points in their lives.When you are younger you identify success with a high flying career and oodles of
disposable income. On the flipside, as you grow older you are more susceptible to fall prey to the fallacy of success being the proportional to your social standing.
Here’s something to ponder on before you state your definition of success.
Take the following two examples:
Bill is a 30-year old married man who works in a store.
Every night he returns home from work at 5.15pm and is greeted by his loving wife at the door who gives him a kiss and a hug.He plays games with his children and always tucks them in at bedtime and reads them a story.They have a family holiday each year and are comfortable even though they sometimes go without to please the kids.The family spends a lot of time together.
Jane is 28 years old and is single.
She works in the City and will be lucky to reach her apartment before 8 in the evening.She rarely socialises due to her hectic workload and due to the fact that she is always too tired
to go out.She lives in an affluent area in Chelsea and drives a sports car. She could afford to go anywhere in the world on holiday but never does so in case she misses out on something
happening at work.Jane has few friends and sometimes is lonely “The money makes up for it though” she states.
The question now is: Which one of the above is the most successful to you?Now that you have some food for thought, carry on penning down what success really means to you.
Write your definition of success
Think hard and think clear. Make sure you are specific.
Do not carry on reading this until you have done so.
If you haven’t filled in the above space do it now! What follows will make more sense.Look closer and you will see that your definition of success has certain inherent factors,
which have influenced you subconsciously to form it.
Your definition of success is formed by:
Your upbringing
Your beliefs
Your traits
Your attitude
Your priorities in life
Your peers and family
The Society
The crests and troughs you have been through in life
Can you make the connection? Sure you can!!
But are you sure this is the definition you want to stick with all your life. We are talking about reinvention about finding a new you. Go on and maybe you might want to make some
changes in there.
In a world, where change is the only constant, we say, it’s not survival of fittest but its survival of the reinvented!
Life is too short to succumb to mediocrity. Don’t get stuck with circumstances that you don’t want to be in. we are going to help you figure out what is it that you truly want from life. It’s right there in your subconscious mind but you need to get it out, and make it a reality. That’s what this e-course aims to achieve.
In today’s session, we are going to analyze how you perceive success. This information will act like a pointer to tell you your position in life now in relation to where you want to be.
This interesting session can really open new doors for you.
So, grab a coffee, get a pen and get set for this week’s session and kick start your mutation process!
Understanding yourself
In this fast track hectic life have you ever slowed down and wondered what am I doing here?
You seem to be always on the move, busy coping with the various demands of different situations in life or trying to stay ahead of them. If anyone asked you why, you would most
probably say ‘because I want to be a success in life’.
However what exactly success in life entails seems elusive.
You never know whether you would live again. Therefore, you might get only one chance to find out what your life is about. It would be so dismal if in our end moments, we still have a
wish list open, and lots of regrets.
In this session we have some mind encroaching exercises to help you discover what your life is really about. Just a word of caution, do this with an open mind and things will fall right in
place.
Let’s start with what you perceive success in life to be.
What is success? How to Argue and Win Every Time
Different people perceive success differently at different points in their lives.When you are younger you identify success with a high flying career and oodles of
disposable income. On the flipside, as you grow older you are more susceptible to fall prey to the fallacy of success being the proportional to your social standing.
Here’s something to ponder on before you state your definition of success.
Take the following two examples:
Bill is a 30-year old married man who works in a store.
Every night he returns home from work at 5.15pm and is greeted by his loving wife at the door who gives him a kiss and a hug.He plays games with his children and always tucks them in at bedtime and reads them a story.They have a family holiday each year and are comfortable even though they sometimes go without to please the kids.The family spends a lot of time together.
Jane is 28 years old and is single.
She works in the City and will be lucky to reach her apartment before 8 in the evening.She rarely socialises due to her hectic workload and due to the fact that she is always too tired
to go out.She lives in an affluent area in Chelsea and drives a sports car. She could afford to go anywhere in the world on holiday but never does so in case she misses out on something
happening at work.Jane has few friends and sometimes is lonely “The money makes up for it though” she states.
The question now is: Which one of the above is the most successful to you?Now that you have some food for thought, carry on penning down what success really means to you.
Write your definition of success
Think hard and think clear. Make sure you are specific.
Do not carry on reading this until you have done so.
If you haven’t filled in the above space do it now! What follows will make more sense.Look closer and you will see that your definition of success has certain inherent factors,
which have influenced you subconsciously to form it.
Your definition of success is formed by:
Your upbringing
Your beliefs
Your traits
Your attitude
Your priorities in life
Your peers and family
The Society
The crests and troughs you have been through in life
Can you make the connection? Sure you can!!
But are you sure this is the definition you want to stick with all your life. We are talking about reinvention about finding a new you. Go on and maybe you might want to make some
changes in there.
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