Now Anil’s first reaction was of course of being stunned, but ‘Jeenat ‘ seemed to have taken this as an experience in his life…he doesn’t seem to be scarred by the whole experience…rather he has very fond memories of it…my only concern was that he had been physical with a much older girl at such a tender age, but he insists that he was very aware of what he was getting into…there is no point in getting into the morality of the issue, because i feel every individual has their own moral fabric, and they decide whats right and wrong based on that…’Jeenat’ seemed like a very mature 19 yr old, who insists that his new relationship is now for life and he had called me only so that he could share this secret of his with at least somebody…

But i was left thinking what to make out of the whole situation? Do we curse the sensibilities of the girl who at 27 yrs didn’t have better sense than to sleep with a 15 yr old? In any relationship feel its the responsibility of the older of the two to make the right choices, but in this case it was not to be…I guess, sometimes its easier for people to give in to their carnal desires, instead of giving thought to what their actions could lead up to!!!

I remember, once I heard someone on air who was 24yrs old and unmarried and his 42yr old married neighbor was trying to seduce him, and he was in a dilemma whether to succumb or not…and its not as if these incidents are isolated…what do we make out of this, ki chalo aisa toh bade bade shehron ki chhoti chhoti galiyon mein hota hee rehta hai…?

I am still on the thinking mode…aapka kya kehna hai?