Here we are going to throw some light on other aspects of this movie which may prove useful in our day to day life also. So let's begin.

Be Your Favourite

Love, affection are some of the things necessary for happy & healthy living apart from roti, kapada & makan. Today we all are very busy that we have to take appointments to meet our loved ones. Distance, between two places has decreased and has increased between two persons. Husband-wife are happy to get to see each other on weekend. We may argue love has lost!

Here comes Geet. She is her favourite. She loves herself. She is a bindass girl, who talks to herself, tries to keep her happy offcourse without hurting anyone. And at the same time she lives like our normal city girls. She is happy & positive in her act, hence she could love everyone around her and make them happy. It's very simple. Give & take. To give something you need to have something. Start loving yourself. Pamper yourself with all the amenities available around you. Today we have spas, massage centers, various health care parlors, yoga, dance classes. Spend on yourself first. Feel nice, look nice.

Start loving yourself, talk positively and see the world will reciprocate in same manner. Be a person full of positive energy. Be a passionate lover. Be full of confidence. Be honest. And yes be your favourite.

Real Me, Actual Me

"Life is boring. It is very unfair to me. I always get the worst. This only happens to me. Only bad can happen with me", most of you will agree with those sentences and may have used it lots of time also. I understand that life is not easy. It takes a lot to survive in today's competitive world. Does that mean we stop expecting good from our life? After all we do thing for our betterment, for the people we love. And moreover the world is same for all. Do you thing it only happens to you? Answer honestly. Any outcome is the result of inputs. Sometimes it takes time to give output, but it really gives. Nothing goes into vain this world. We just need to give our inputs with honesty without thinking of results.

Geet always expects the best out of her life. She believes only good can happen to her. That doesn't mean that there is no problems in her life. There are many problems in her life. But she never lose courage and never lose her cool. She has an amazing philosophy. Whenever she faces any problem, she thinks "everything has failed now what can go wrong now there is only one way and that is only upwards. Only good can happen now. Worst is over". She further says "jo aap actual me chahate hain, real me wohi aap ke saath hota hey". What a thinking really.

Friends, life is equal to everyone. There is an equilibrium of happiness and sadness in everyone's life. Each one comes after other one. So ball is in your kitty. It depends on you how you want play it. So why shouldn't we expect best and hope for the good? Remember people are only a step away form it, when they call it quiet. Expect the best and be honest.

Follow Your Heart

We have an internal response system in our body, mind & heart are two of them. Mind gives you logical response with all the analysis of good & bad for yourself. It may seem selfish sometimes. Heart is probably the most honest part of our body. Follow your heart. It will help you to live a guilt free happy life.

In Jab We Met, Geet always follows her heart. She also takes total responsibility of her decisions, good or bad whatever it may turn to be. She believes "its my life, I live it my way. There should not be anyone to blame afterwards other than me. I take full responsibility of whatever I do". Very much like today's generation. Independent yet responsible. Give some rest to your mind, follow your instincts. It pays you back in long term.

Prejudice, Flush it!

We have a very bad habit to judge a person without knowing him personally. I have my personal experience. I disliked one of my good friend when I first met her. I found her over reactive. Down the line, my job demanded to be with her. I got to know her well during that time. She is very talkative and today I really have fond of her. Spend some time to understand someone. And after that still you feel the same, flush it!

It is very much a child like activity.Whenever she has some bad or hurting memory, she simply flushes it in loo. In first point she has no prejudice or grudge for anyone. And if at all she has any, she throws it out. What a love way to leave your worries. Here I would go a step forward and suggest to write your problems in a piece of paper. Now remember, every problem comes with it's solutions. If you could not find the solutions, just leave it because its not your problem. So tear that piece of paper and flush it. First, try not to have any prejudice (or problem). And still you have any, flush it immediately.

Have a Hobby

Friends, this is something very much necessary. You need to have a hobby. Actually we all have something inside us which makes us happy. If you remember, you had so many activities to do in your childhood and without any boredom we used to do them all. As we grow older, we become conciese about our each and every act. And when you care for other's attention, you tend to lose concentration on yourself. Doing what we love makes you stress free and set your mind & body refresh. It's like an ocean, have dive in it once in a day. Find a hobby and spend some time (or money if needed) on it. Time is just an excuse. Keep a place for hobby in your daily planner.

In Jab We Met,it's hero has a hobby. But has lost it in his daily routine. In his busy schedule he forgets his hobby, music. Geet encourages her to start it all again and follow it. And works like a magic in his life. If he can why can't we? Only starting is difficult. It's like getting up early in the morning. It's like winning a battle. Once you start beginners luck is with you. Once you are waken up, you will feel fresh and full of energy in the morning. So wake up, get up. Winning a battle helps to win war. Get back to old happy days. Have a passionate hobby and follow it by heart.

Attach, Detach

We are social animals. We like to socialize. Love, affection are need for a happy and healthy living. Generally these needs are satisfied by family & friends. Family is a place when you can be yourself and yet everyone excepts you. Same goes for friends. They except you the way you are. Everywhere else you may need to wear a mask. You can always open your heart to them without fear of rejection. They take away your worries and problems and give you love, affection and happiness which leads to a perfect life. Whenever you need them, don't hesitate to ask for a helping hand. With your surprise they will come up with every solution. You just need to be with them. Keep attached with family & friends. Don't keep distance with them. Isolation gives you nothing but sadness, loneliness and stress.

If you have noticed in the movie, Geet very happy in first half of movie. She plans to run away from home to marry her boyfriend whom her family doesn't approve. She says " bas unke pairo mein gir jana hai. mafi mangna hai. Ek bar shadi ho gayi fir to maf karana hi hai." Still she is happy because she still intends to come back to home. She is so closely attached with her family and never wants to go away with it. In the contrary, she is so sad in later half. Reason? Simple, it was her decision to ran away and she did. She takes total responsibility of it and live in a hostel without informing anyone thus she isolates her. Result? She is lonely. She is sad. Life without happiness means no life. And that's all because she detached herself from family & friends. So never go away from your family. After all they are the people who matters above everything. Remember, family makes house home. And home is a place where day ends, where the world ends. Be home Be happy.

That's it from me. I hope you have enjoyed it and will take away some positives out of it. I will be back soon with one more movie one more aspect. Till then good bye. I would love to hear from you, do write your comments.

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