Good Morning!
I got out off my bed with good mood.... and thanks god in advance for making my day beautiful. This is my routine.
With the cup of tea i turned up the front page of TOI.. News paper and suddenly i lost my happiness with first news of youth/student ending his life. And this triggered me to write something upon this .... but before i need to justify why i can write something on this topic ....i can write on this topic because i have rebuilt my life from scratch. I had lost everything ...i had donated everything.... and i gained everything to live life happily ...and believe me i regained this with great amount of hard work, patience and constant focus on the objective.
In TOI they publish a mother carrying youth photo and crying ... disappointing. Disappointment for mother..Who lost his son ... one side? Disappointment for parents who failed to taught his son values those are really very important to live and succeed in this competitive world.
I believe if you are social and care about other is this society you will find the strength to fight day to day problems. A simple thing... till my graduation i had bicycle to go to my college...on the top of that i need to picked up my friend from his place to finally reach to the college ... and we were first to reach college on time :-). But you know this daily routine generated great amount of responsibility in me those days ...as he was depended upon me...also friendship bond got stronger...due to cycling we were very fit and active so because of that we were able to get connect with lots of others ....we formed group ....attitude developed leadership to carry this group. And now also professionally i am on stronger side despite of all day to day odds .... all this is possible because i looked upon the positive side of every action.
Gaining positive attitude is not so difficult .... but you need to developed reading habit in you....observation habit in you. I refer you to read Norman Vincent Pale literature.
Parents need to understand that ...they need to make their son emotionally and mentally strong. Developed good values to get succeed in this world. Developed reading habits in your son....and make him more and more social......and not party animal. Make him believe in god..... Not dependent upon the god.
I remember some words of Hennery Fords " When everything seems to be going against you, remember that the airplane takes off against the wind, not with it".
Wake up...stand up. and take charge of you life ..... Because it's very beautiful.
-meetMakarand