Have You Missed Something: May Be Your Life, But move On..
Never, i swear, because we - i mean, human being - fail to recognize this issue, crushing the "Life Meaning" of millions, if not billions.
But once you take the decision ,knowledge: Acquired during initial years of life, then during adolescence and finally during rest of the life makes no sense, when you you choose to ignore your common sense to re-shuffle priorities - shifting from self to the manifestation of self - your children.
Can
you reverse your decision, even if it affects the future of your
children ? Many do, so divorces take place, but more than many don't
do. Are they fools ? Who knows ?
But i know, they are not ,because, they decide consciously not to spoil the life of their children for the consequences of own wrong decisions!
How can you isolate yourself from the situation you only have created, and wash your hands off the responsibilities - Your own children , your own creations ?
Don't be so selfish, try to adjust for the sake of your children, and if at times; you find it unbearable, look at the eyes of of your sons or daughters and ask yourself - what is their mistake?
Even then, if you are willing to dis-integrate your family life - move ahead - you are a monster, no doubt!
Don't misunderstand me..i am not telling you to surrender your life to circumstances..what i wish to communicate is - you had lived your childhood, and you must allow your children to live it as well.
If you have missed something.. may be your life..move on.. you may not have enough time to compensate, but live the life of your children....ultimately, your own life.Warm regards
Abhijit Kar
Originally published in my blog "Leadership And Networking"
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