Parents OfTeN sAY ....
Parents often say “I trust my child “
Well wondered if the child trust you?
One such example that came across…
One of my distance relatives, there was a girl. From a really well off family and pretty girl. A girl everything mother who has a son wants her as the daughter in law.
Unfortunately by birth she suffered from diabetics, its sad yet the truth. she moved away from her parents for her futher studies and half way through what we here is she ran off with someone. Someone her parents know isn’t suitable for her.
Blessed might be the word, im not too sure. Her parents pulled her out of it . no one came to know it was just few people . This girl is perfect but it was her defect that controlled her life. She made decisions at such young age and now she sits here and regrets it.
Her parents went through so much to get her divorce with family coming to know about it. So this commonly heard line “I trust my child” didn’t have any relevance here. When the child felt down and decided to spill her life at her teen ages buzz. I think every parent should reconsider that line before they openly say it.
It hard to trust people, especially when parents just take it for granted that they are friendly to their kids. All I have to say to the parents are – Its your family, non of us have a voice here, but at least make sure we don’t get a chance to only voice our opinion and you have to live by that . And the children of these privileged parents- they say they are busy, but im sure they are not too busy for you
And to those people who don’t fall into these categories… your not to far from into one of these hopefully!!
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