I started making of the home with Sapthapadi.But how much the human heart listens to the vows which are said once in the life when compared to the song of love that the heart keeps murmuring each morning and each evening.If the husband and the wife become attached with the thread of emotions rather than the turmeric thread then it is the most wonderful event.

When the emotional thread weakens the heart gets addicted to the old love(feeling of love dreamt or the standards of the love set) like tasting the old wine.When the expectations are not fulfilled the heart seeks this model where in it seeks the refuge of dreams and the desire to get everything from outside.Name,fame,stars,moon,galaxies and the whole and whole to balance that unfelt home in the own house.

"I would ask for still more, if I had the sky with all its stars,
and the world with its endless riches;
but I would be content with the smallest corner of this earth,
if only she were mine".

Beautiful lines by Rabindranath Tagore so well define the role of love in life.Love cannot be equated by anything in the world.And to some extent all those who won the world with great ambition were in dearth of what they wanted and the great deeds in the history are the story of unatisfied souls building the castles in the air and on the earth in the name of love.

Love is the essence of the relationship.It is the concrete to build the home with hearts than the bricks and cement.When the primer of Sapthapadi fails to synthesize the required output the heart keeps the dreams as primers to build the love in the air.

The person from any Western country wonders how these arranged marriages happen and couple live in India.One of my friend asked me "without living with a person,without understanding all the requiremants for the long term commitments how can you get married to a person just because you have to get married??"I really could explain somethings about Sapthapadi and about our parents and grandparents and the fun in the family etc etc.But there wa a shrug and a sneer.

He started this modelling of love before marriage in their country,where the modelling starts with the doors of the eyes,and further steps were all related to emotions rather than the rituals.It lasts till the emotions last.Wherever you find the comfortable place to sit and comfortably talk and pour out your heart that would be the home.When that doesn't exist ,when the definition 'Home is a place where you have to go and they will take you in' doesn't hold good that place cannot be a home for a person anymore.

In India till today the strong primer Sapthapadi is making the homes than the ab initio model.But for the heart as Tagore said all the joys are sought by the love model.So husband and wife becoming the beloveds for life with the thick thread of emotional binding and love can keep any model to make home.Overall summary is love is the essence of home and the heart too.Between husband and wife,parents and kids,and among all family members.Once again home is made up of hearts and feelings not of bricks and cement.

Hail to the glories of love.Let every home have enough love to eat,talk,walk,dance,sing and sleep.