Now the duties or the attributes entitled to honor the wife are as follows:

1)Karyeshu dasi-hardworking

2)Karaneshu mantri-brilliant

3)rupecha lakshmi-beautiful

4)kshamaya dharitri-forgiving

5)bhojyeshu mata-caring

6) sayaneshu rambha-romantic

shat dharmayukta kuladharmapatni-And thats the Indian wife.

No such honors of duties have been made yet for the husbands to practise their vows.May be because the slokas in Sanskrit are mainly written by men and as men wrote them only wifing process is defined so well.

I never dare to take the present day examples where these lines are becoming fanatic.The men byheart these lines before marriage and girls hardly know what is the meaning of daasi,manthri etc etc.So whenever the husband says 'Karyeshu daasi' the girl surely shows her flaming eyes with the good grand slangs of the 21st century with full confidence.

So the Karyeshu daasi sometimes inside of the wife is sung like 'Sarfaroshi ki thamanna ab hamare dil me hai,dekhana hai zor kithne bajhuyen kaathil me hai'

So whatever was written was for good and its all taken fanatically by men and abhorrently by the women.So girls think of going back to the time of Vedas to write the duties for their husbands.I feel which even the husbands should consider the expectations of their wives.By the interaction with many women from my childhood I can write one of the poetry of a woman in general to help husbands to practise their duties with ease.

1)Bhogeshu Raja-Rich

2)Vachaneshu Rama-Honest

3)Chaturasya Krishna-Brilliant

4)Dhairyeshu Karna-Daring

5)Roopecha Indra-Handsome

6)Kaameshu madana-Romantic

Shatdharmayuktha manadharma Ramana-the dear husband.

Its just an imaginary anecdote for the expectations of a girl from the marriage whether she tells or not.So for balancing the losing weightage of the duty definition for a wife few requirements from the Indian husbands are openly put up.

May be it sounds funny to know an Indian wife expects so many in one man??But marriage thy other name is expectation more than the unexpected and unexpecting love.

The Indian marriages are beautiful only when the expectations whether partially or fully fulfilled.Otherwise they become like a trap for the whole life's time.So the home lives when the partners understand what is expected from them.And the primer of Sapthapadi can synthesise the beautiful family and a wonderful home in that understanding.